Is urge incontinence going to give me health problems?

No not really. Urge incontinence isn't like cancer. It isn't something that is going to kill you. It is a quality of life issue. Leaking can lead to poor self-esteem & self-limiting of social interactions. There is a risk of local skin irritation & breakdown from wetness but it isn't a significant health risk in most otherwise healthy people. Urge incontinence can be treated and is not a normal part of aging.