How can I make my hands and feet more cosmetically pleasing with raynauds syndrome?

Depends on cause. We use variety of therapies that cause dilation of blood vessels - Nitroglycerin ointment in the finger webspace, calcium channel blockers like procardia, erectile dysfunction drugs like viagra, (sildenafil) cilia. Dress warmly, wear gloves, clarify the reason why you have rayanuds.