How come I feel so upset when people tell me I can't get married if I have a learning disorder?

Looking for love. Maybe you should get upset. Simply having a learning disorder is no reason not to ever get married. Many people get married with complicated emotional states and as long as two people are willing to work together they can usually work out their differences. It's all about mutual support and understanding. This might be one of those times everybody else needs to keep their opinions to themselves.