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My husband had prostatectomy 3 months ago and refuses to have sex with me. I know he is capable because he masturbates frequently. Why is he avoiding ?
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Dr. Steven Chen
Clinical Psychology
3 doctors agree
In brief: Marriage counseling
Consider going to marriage counseling or perhaps consider asking your husband to attend some individual counseling.
There are numerous reasons a person may avoid being intimate with their partner, it is important to have your husband work through the underlying issues he has.

In brief: Marriage counseling
Consider going to marriage counseling or perhaps consider asking your husband to attend some individual counseling.
There are numerous reasons a person may avoid being intimate with their partner, it is important to have your husband work through the underlying issues he has.
Dr. Steven Chen
Dr. Steven Chen
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Dr. Stephen Pappachen
Obstetrics & Gynecology
2 doctors agree
In brief: Anxiety
There are many reasons.
He may have concerns about recovery, trauma, etc. Talk to him and get a dialogue going.

In brief: Anxiety
There are many reasons.
He may have concerns about recovery, trauma, etc. Talk to him and get a dialogue going.
Dr. Stephen Pappachen
Dr. Stephen Pappachen
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