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My husband prefers masturbating over sex with me! yes I have gained some weight..But sex is non existant. He tells me he has no drive yet he masturbat?

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Dr. George Valdez
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In brief: Depends

This can be frustrating and is not acceptable.
If persists would try open and calm discussion about how to solve the problem together. Next step is counselor. There is a good book by mcknight called love tactics, that teach how to cultivate love and affection.

In brief: Depends

This can be frustrating and is not acceptable.
If persists would try open and calm discussion about how to solve the problem together. Next step is counselor. There is a good book by mcknight called love tactics, that teach how to cultivate love and affection.
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