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How would know what I am capable of changing in my bf?

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Dr. Steven Chen
Clinical Psychology

In brief: Wrong approach

There is only one person you can change - you.
If you believe you need to change your boyfriend in order for the relationship to work, the probability is that the relationship will not work. The goal in a relationship is to work together to make the partnership strong and healthy. The other person has to want to work with you to make a strong partnership.

In brief: Wrong approach

There is only one person you can change - you.
If you believe you need to change your boyfriend in order for the relationship to work, the probability is that the relationship will not work. The goal in a relationship is to work together to make the partnership strong and healthy. The other person has to want to work with you to make a strong partnership.
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