How can I help a loved one manage urinary incontinence before going to assisted living?

Medical Evaluation. A good resource is www.voicesforpfd.org. or http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/urinaryincontinence.html Recommed further discussion with primary doctor, urologist, urogynecologist.... There are different types of incontinence that have different treatment options. Further evaluation is needed.