3yr old screaming pain as sd her neck hurts & ear hurts- 2-took her 2 PA she sd she has lots wax & her lymphnodes swollen, but she still hold. Neck?

TM's visualized? A diagnosis of ear wax occluding canal does not rule out otitis media. She needs to have these TM's visualized to know whether there is ear infection or not. Your pediatrician should be able to remove the wax gently in the exam room to the point of TM visualization. When a 3 year old screams her ear hurts, an ear infection is likely.