Do men who go to strip clubs have deviant sex?

Depends who you ask. I cannot imagine how going to a strip club helps in the intimate relationship between a man and a woman based on trust and so much more that physical appearance. This attitude makes little more that sex toys for men and most women want to be more as a companion and lover. Everyone has to decide what they are looking for and how they are going to get there. Good luck finding love in a strip joint.