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Can divorced parents spark fear of abandonment in a 10 year old?
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Dr. Derrick Lonsdale
Preventive Medicine
5 doctors agree
In brief: Of course
It depends on custody and how much true love is provided.
Parents should be unanimous in how this is achieved.

In brief: Of course
It depends on custody and how much true love is provided.
Parents should be unanimous in how this is achieved.
Dr. Derrick Lonsdale
Dr. Derrick Lonsdale
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Dr. Ana Adelstein
Clinical Psychology
2 doctors agree
In brief: Yes. Handle w/ Care!
If divorced/divorcing parents r putting their child's interests & needs first, then dedicating themselves 2ensuring that their child feels loved & secure will be their principal consideration.
Any conflict between the parents has the potential to hurt the child, making her/him feel caught in the middle, as well as responsible. Sadly, some parents don't understand kids' needs & how 2put them first.

In brief: Yes. Handle w/ Care!
If divorced/divorcing parents r putting their child's interests & needs first, then dedicating themselves 2ensuring that their child feels loved & secure will be their principal consideration.
Any conflict between the parents has the potential to hurt the child, making her/him feel caught in the middle, as well as responsible. Sadly, some parents don't understand kids' needs & how 2put them first.
Dr. Ana Adelstein
Dr. Ana Adelstein
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Dr. Andrew Ho
Psychiatry
In brief: Loss of parents
Look at it this way, suddenly, one of two most important people in your life no longer live in the same house with you and not available to check your homework.
Basically drop out of your world. What reassures that child this disappearing act won't repeat with the remaining parent? Divorce is one of the most psychologically traumatizing event in children's lives. Damage is beyond just abandonment.

In brief: Loss of parents
Look at it this way, suddenly, one of two most important people in your life no longer live in the same house with you and not available to check your homework.
Basically drop out of your world. What reassures that child this disappearing act won't repeat with the remaining parent? Divorce is one of the most psychologically traumatizing event in children's lives. Damage is beyond just abandonment.
Dr. Andrew Ho
Dr. Andrew Ho
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