Either could be used with Lexapro (escitalopram). Risperdal is an "atypical neuroleptic", a powerful tranquilizer used for psychosis, agitation, & similar states. Remeron (mirtazapine) is a sedating antidepressant (helps sleep). Both often cause weight gain, & Risperdal other possible side-effects.
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