Ever since March colonoscopy:big hemorrhoids! Cant b 2 intimate w bf! Water, fiber, tucks, witch hazel, diaper rash gel, flushable wipes etc! Just b patient?

See your doc. This is not not normal. Self remedies is not the solution. See your doc. In mean time put yourself on some stool softener.
Yes. First, you are young to have had a colonoscopy so it would be helpful to know why as it may be related. Second, in terms of intimacy does this mean anal receptive intercourse because that will not allow the hemorrhoids to settle down and would need to cease for a while. Third, sometimes swelling and protrusion at rectum is not hemorrhoids and could be the lining of the rectum called mucosa.