2 days leading up to my period I get very bad costochondritis, a red nose and chin that won't go away, hives, and severe cramping. Is this normal?

No; cyclical hives? With hives, etc. Occurring regularly 2 days before periods you may have cyclical urticaria (hives) which seems to be related to Progesterone level changes with your periods. Stopping birth control pill or if not on one, starting one, may control your symptoms. One case responded to buserelin which works on pituitary to modify hormone release. Have to consult allergist for proper management.