How can I increase my sex drive. I'm a 40yr old female. Never really had a great 1. I could abt live w/o it actually. Hubby hates me not havn 1.?

No one answer. Physical, psychological, social and cultural factors all play into your ability to respond to sex. Find a physician who is knowledgable about human sexuality to start exploring how to improve your sex life. Your husband will also need to be a participant. Good luck!