Am I HIV risk for unprotected frottage (penis on anus) AFTER protected anal sex/fingering with male then had additional protec sex again? Rubbed tip of penis on anus (lube, poss mucosa around area)

Protection. You. Are at risk. The risk may not be high without penetration into the nays but is still substantial. You should get testing and take precautions in the future. As a general rule, if you are questioning whether or not something is safe, it usually isn't! BE CAREFUL!!!!! .