Y do I have such bad THROAT, neck, shoulder, arm, lower face pain, tingling, burning, buzzy aching. Adams apple/hyoid area pain. Wheres the connection?

Start with ENT. Difficult array of symptoms. See an ENT doc who can examine you and provide treatment or referral.
Wierdness??!! In my 30 yrs, 15 y in Complementary and Alternative Medicine, you does not fit into a traditional diagnosis so by default it must fit into a CAM diagnose, the overwhelming problems in this world are all in the class of Myofascial Pain and Dysfunction which I call the great masqueraders of medicine. They must be treated!!! The treatments are old-school options, see my post. Acupuncture + etc.