I have never had a pap smear. I am 25 and a virgin. Whenever a person I am dating touches my vagina, it hurts if they aren't super gentle.?

Clarify, get Pap. This does not seem clear, but any shin to skin contact with an infected person can possibly cause infectiion. Women should start pap screening by age 20 regardless of their status. This can detect many things and it would be best to start now.