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Best way to cure the fear of sex for 1st time but still wanna enjoy it with my partner ? 

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Dr. Michael Klein
Family Medicine
5 doctors agree

In brief: Supportive partner

Having a loving supportive partner who understands your needs and concerns is the best way.
By making a safe atmosphere and knowing that whatever your concerns, your partner will listen, what can be a frightening experience for many can be a truly enjoyable one.

In brief: Supportive partner

Having a loving supportive partner who understands your needs and concerns is the best way.
By making a safe atmosphere and knowing that whatever your concerns, your partner will listen, what can be a frightening experience for many can be a truly enjoyable one.
Dr. Michael Klein
Dr. Michael Klein
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Dr. George Klauber
Pediatrics - Urology
1 doctor agrees

In brief: See a gynecologist

Gyn dr. Can tell you if your vaginal opening is large enough and even gently divide an occlusive or rigid hymen almost painlessly under local anesthesia.
This should remove fear of pain. Birth control pill plus condom for your partner should remove any fear of std or pregnancy. Patient, loving partner plus lubricant, if necessary in a pleasant, private & romantic setting should remove fear.

In brief: See a gynecologist

Gyn dr. Can tell you if your vaginal opening is large enough and even gently divide an occlusive or rigid hymen almost painlessly under local anesthesia.
This should remove fear of pain. Birth control pill plus condom for your partner should remove any fear of std or pregnancy. Patient, loving partner plus lubricant, if necessary in a pleasant, private & romantic setting should remove fear.
Dr. George Klauber
Dr. George Klauber
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Dr. Theresa Willett
If you can't get to a GYN doctor, as least use the lubricant and condoms! You or your partner can use fingers to gently stretch the strong vaginal muscles that can cause some pain. Of course, if it hurts and you don't enjoy it, stop and try some other (safe) way of enjoying your partner.
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