I need some tips to help deal with borderline personality disorder family member?

Boundaries. Keeping consistent boundaries will be helpful for you and your family member. Talk openly about what you feel comfortable with and what you don't. This is a great skill to model for someone who has BPD.
BPD is difficult. to treat, since the person does not feel anything is wrong with them. There are however varied levels of functioning and differences in different people with personality disorders. Encourage them to find a therapist that they can trust and work with for life. They will try to work from their strengths, the more neurotic parts of their personality, the things that they can recognize as problematic.

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How can family members or loved ones deal with a borderline personality disorder?

Be there. Be real. Try to be consistent. Be supportive and empathic, but also remind the other of the reality of the situation. Read more...
Validate, set limits. There are many books for family members and loved ones of a person with borderline personality disorder. There are probably support groups as well. Are you a parent, sibling, child, spouse of the patient or are you the patient? Marsha linehan has developed a therapy called dialectical behavioral therapy (dbt) for people with dbt. Read about this. Central to it are validating and setting limits. Read more...

Borderline personality disorder thanks for reading and any help you can provide. I have a family member who I'm fairly certain is bpd. I believe she's had similar problems stemming from childhood. How can we express to this person how her actions make p

Part . Part of the challenge with having borderline personality is an inability of the patient to manage their emotional world. Often they will be controlling in order to give them some sense of their internal chaos. I would recommend the book, "stop walking on eggshells" by randy kreger to help give you some perspective and tools to deal with your BP family member. Read more...
Great . Great question and incredibly difficult situation. I believe that there is a lot of good information available on the web from reliable sites (such as mayo clinic) on this topic. The description of the family member's behavior certainly is one that could raise the issue of the diagnosis but only a mental health professional trained particularly to deal with such presentations can reach that conclusion. There is greater interest and understanding about bpd in recent years and especially the contribution of both nature and nurture. Treatment options are increasing as are appropriate medications to help with the more severe symptoms. You will find a lot of that discussed on good web sites. I would also particularly recommend looking at dr. Marsha lenahan's dialectic behavior therapy model for helpful hints on understanding and approaching the family member. Being able to accept their behavior on the one hand and also being able to point out that such reactions may not be the most optimal way of dealing with intense emotions and could lead to job and relationship losses as well as alienating relatives who would like to be of help. There is a way of learning better techniques for expressing these feelings that would help create allies and gain support that otherwise leads to adversarial relationships and the very feelings of being all alone that are dreaded. Patience will be tried, calm persistence is needed. Read more...

Can you tell me if there were any families out there who have a member of family with borderline personality disorder?

Likely, as BPD is . estimated to occur in anywhere from 1 to 3 percent of the population, depending upon the source. (I think less, but some people think more). Run the numbers. There are 310 million people in the USA and family size is, on average just over three people. Lots of people have BPD. Read more...
Many families have. members with borderline personality disorder and other psychological issues. An organization called National Association for Mentally Ill (NAMI) may be able to provide some information and support. They work a lot w/family members. Peace and good health. Read more...

Have borderline personality disorder. Family thinks its all about me controlling mind. Is it possible alone? Region no proper therapist.

Telemedicine. Please speak to Health Tap and they may be able to arrange a virtual consultation with a psychiatrist to help you with your condition. Many of your psychological issues can be helped with a good support system and a good psychiatrist and therapist. Good Luck! Read more...

I have been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Can you tell me what this is and how to explain it to family and friends?

BPD is a personality. configuration characterized by very poor self-esteem, unstable relationships, volatile moods, acting out in extreme ways (drugs, sex, manipulating), and in extreme versions, hysteria, antisocial tendencies, paranoia, even psychotic episodes. "Borderline" means sometimes close to psychosis, sometimes not. Read everything you can before sharing any of this with others. Web MD, Psychology Today. Read more...
Borderline Personali. Feel empty often? Impulsive? Intense anger? Marked mood swings? Suicidal thoughts / behaviors? Self mutilation? Frantic efforts to avoid losing people in your life? Intense & unstable relationships? Difficulty figuring out who you are? Feel like others are out to get you or just lose time when stressed? Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Psychiatry lists diagnostic criteria. Talk more with dr. Read more...

What are the chances of getting borderline personality disorder with no family history?

See below. Getting a disorder is an eternal 'nature vs nurture' debate. There are some genetic components in BPD. Environment also plays a role. I look at a personality disorder as the way of relating to the environment, which to some extent is learnt. Everyone has some traits of 'personality disorder', but if you're able to function adaptively in social and work-related spheres, then it is not a disorder. Read more...

Do I have some kind of bipolar disorder or something similar? My dad has anger problems. My mom is dyslexic. My sister has bipolar and borderline personality disorder. My family is basically messed up. My sister and I are very similar. We have both been t

Hello, . Hello, bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder can have a number of common features. It is often difficult for psychiatrists to differentiate between the two. I recommend that you dont' try to self- label. If you are cutting yourself, you feel depressed, have marked mood swings and feel like you have more than one identity, it is really important that you are getting professional help. Your psychaitrist or psychologist can provide you with information about your diagnosis after a comprehensive assessment is completed. Take care. Read more...
Can't say for sure. What i can say is that there would appear to be a strong family history of mental illness. Getting evaluated by a professional is the only sure way to know and then get help. Read more...

What is the best way to deal with borderline personality disorder?

Multiple Strategies. The best approach usually combines multiple types of treatments including both non-medication therapies as well as medications that target the most problematic symptoms. Read more...
Psychotherapy. There are many therapies which are effective for borderline personality disorder. All are long term. Medication may be useful for specific symptoms, but not as a primary treatment. Read more...
DBT. Dbt, or dialetic behavioral therapy, formulated and developed by marsha linehan, pH.D. Is currently though of as being very effective. Borderline personality disorder or treatment is more a management issue than an issue that is curable. Read more...

My cousin has likely borderline personality disorder and I don't know how to deal with it?

Get help. I would reccommend getting some support from others perhaps relatives who care about your cousin and try to support her by being consistent, not getting involved or tolerating negative behaviors and encouraging her to get consistent help and support within the group of caring others you have assembled, or professionally. Read more...
Read up on it. Walking on eggshells is written 4 relatives spouses & friends of borderlines. Read more...
Borderline cousin. Stay supportive, avoid verbal confrontations, ignore personal attacks, & help him/her find a competent counselor who specializes in dialectical behavior therapy work. Read more...
Helpful resources. Some great resources are available. One of the best is stop walking on eggshells by paul mason and randi kreger. Highly recommended! Read more...