I'm 32. Having extreke hot flashes, sweating when I'm not hot, new onset breast tenderness with menses. Other sx, along w increased depression.?

Not menopause. Continuation of periods and associated symptoms means that these events are due to something other than menopause. A thorough medical evaluation is appropriate and should reveal the cause.
PMDD. It is complicated, females were being diagnosed with pmdd and given ssri , did not well, so researchers are looking into, fcd, and brain and body and endocrine all together , it is making a lot of sense, not to separate , head and body , when treating, as god did not create them separate, it is an ambalance of hormones of fsh, lh, tsh, and causes symptoms around menstrual cycle , treated easily.