Can a wisdom teeth infection spread to my eyes and/or my brain? It spread to my ears 3months ago and has continuenly gotten worse along with other sym

It could. Dental abscess if not treated could spread the infection to other areas of the body resulting in brain abscess, heart infection, pneumonia, or other serious complications. Rec.: see your dentist for evaluation, imaging and treatment.
Urgent. When you have a tooth infection that is spreading as you said to your eyes ' ears ' or getting closer to the brain . You should get an immediate attention . I strongly suggest to get a checkup by your dentist for an immediate referral to an oral surgeon , no delay please.