Please tell me what substances & therapy-like things are most beneficent for adults with aspergers & vice-versa?

A therapist who. Specializes in aspergers is a good way to go. He/she will help you develop social skills that may not come as easily to you as to some. Embrace who you are, aspergers and all. We all have challenges of one sort or another, yours may be a bit more visible at times. Peace and good health.