I get a lot of urinary tract infections and I was born with out one kidney, I get bad headaches and know I'm having nose bleeds, is this bad?

Symptoms. All of these symptoms may or may not be connected to one cause. This sounds like you need to have a primary care doctor with whom you can communicate effectively. Check with friends and relatives to find a physician who will spend the time and effort to evaluate you and explains their findings to you effectively. Good luck.