Is it okay to eat spicy food while pregnant if im craving it...?

Yes... As long as you feel well and not having much reflux etc, spicey foods should not pose problems. The indonesians/thai/asians in general, eat quite a bit of spicey foods and I think the children are ok... So, enjoy! Congrats and good luck.
Sure! You may get some heartburn, and as long as you don't go overboard, some spicy food is fine.