For over 2 weeks now my gums and teeth have been hurting. It hurts up into my ear and gives me headaches. Gums are white now. Whats going on with me?

Dental Abscess. If not treated, a serious dental abscess can eventually kill. The infection may spread to your jaw, cheeks, sinus and to other areas of your head and neck. See any dentist for examination, x-rays and treatment.
Gingivitis/perio. ? That could be gingivitis or even the more sever form periodontitis woth is inflammation of the tissues surrounding the teeth including , gums, ligaments and bone, see adventist asap for treatment options.
Infection? It sounds like you have some kind of bacterial infection. These things are frequently due to pretty bad oral hygiene conditions. See a dentist.