From ~18 mos. kids
Can respond to time-out & learn self-calming skills, if they are neurotypical.
As they develop language, they can learn to use their words. Discipline = teaching. They can learn, "it's ok to be angry, but it's not okay to ...." then teach what is ok when angry, i.e., how to express it & how to deal with their feelings. Only by ignoring tantrums
-t.O. Without talking -can you " make them" go away.