48 in the hsptl barely able to eat drink speak stage 4 trip neg bc ductal carcinoma it spread everywhere has listeriosis in her blood shell fight this she's too sick for treatment please help me?

There is treatment f. There is treatment for triple neg breast cancer. Just find a good medical oncologist who knows about breast cancer. We have over 10 drugs which can control metastatic breast cancer. Just make sure that these have been made available to you. They include: doxorubicin, paclitaxel, nab paclitaxel, docetaxel, navelbine(vinorelbine), eriibulin, capecitabine, cyclophosphamide, cisplatin, gemcitabine.
Be there for her. Thank you for writing. It's clear that you care deeply. Your friend has the right to accurate information about the likely outcome of any aggressive interventions as opposed to hospice care. Let her know that whatever she chooses, you will remain with her. Many people live to their 90s without someone caring so much about them as you do about this special person. Peace.