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I dread the day my son turns 18 because I fear he will want to meet his biological parents. That's selfish but true.?

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Dr. Ronald Dreyer
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In brief: Discuss with him

Not knowing how old our son is is hard to give advice.
Does he know that he is adopted? If so have you put a positive spin on it? Is it fear that he has discussed it? What do you know of his biological and what was the reason? There are questions i would have to know and then i could answer completely. If you have been frank with him it possibly will not matter whether he meets them.

In brief: Discuss with him

Not knowing how old our son is is hard to give advice.
Does he know that he is adopted? If so have you put a positive spin on it? Is it fear that he has discussed it? What do you know of his biological and what was the reason? There are questions i would have to know and then i could answer completely. If you have been frank with him it possibly will not matter whether he meets them.
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