Cause, no urge 2urinate, just get a presure an have 2 get 2 restroom asap can't hold it, pushes on bowels&visversa also, no leakage when cough ect, mult sur?

Urinary urgency. Aside from the possibility of a uti, you may have interstitial cystitis. Another problem may be diabetes insipidus. In any case you need a complete workup to determine the exact cause.