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Want to find a man who loves me for me but kinda chunky. Should I diet while emailing through match site?
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Dr. Richard Nguyen
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In brief: Yes
Yes.

In brief: Yes
Yes.
Dr. Richard Nguyen
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In brief: Love yourself first
The man who truly loves you will love you irrespective of your size or appearance.
The best motivator to lose weight is to do it for yourself not for anyone else. Focus on the health, stress reducing benefits of losing weight. Btw match sites are not the best way to find a spouse, lots of scams out there. You might find that special one in a walking, running club, sports for charity. Enjoy!

In brief: Love yourself first
The man who truly loves you will love you irrespective of your size or appearance.
The best motivator to lose weight is to do it for yourself not for anyone else. Focus on the health, stress reducing benefits of losing weight. Btw match sites are not the best way to find a spouse, lots of scams out there. You might find that special one in a walking, running club, sports for charity. Enjoy!
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Dr. Pierrette Mimi Poinsett
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