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Doctor insights on: Why Do I Only Get Happy With A Man Is It Just That I Like Feeling In Love

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I madly and intensely love a straight guy though he also loves me but casually as a friend but now he is not with me so i m alone how do I sort it out?

I madly and intensely love a straight guy though he also loves me but casually as a friend but now he is not with me so i m alone how do I sort it out?

Falling for men: Unfortunately this is a common experience, especially when young. With time you will be able to sort this out better after some experience. The healing comes when we can realize these men's gentleness and beauty is what attracts us. But, they are not wired in any way to respond to you romantically. If you are struggling perhaps it is time to get into a therapy situation with a gay friendly.. ...Read more

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Is it normal to not want sex after a year of having kids? I would like to have those urges but i just don't get in the mood anymore like before.

Is it normal to not want sex after a year of having kids? I would like to have those urges but i just don't get in the mood anymore like before.

Libido: That this is very common complaint. There can be any number of easy to fix factors. Typically, i find it a complicated situation with many factors. Are you still breast-feeding? Do you feel alone and at home with the baby all the time and not getting help from your husband or partner? Are you unhappy with your weight gain from the pregnancy or effects of pregnancy on your body? ...Read more

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Why do I suddenly feel so agervated like i want to punch a wall I do have anxeity but being angry why is that it comes on all of a sudden?

Why do I suddenly feel so agervated like i want to punch a wall I do have anxeity but being angry why is that it comes on all of a sudden?

Anger Management: It sure sounds like you need to stop your xanax (alprazolam). If you are drinking alcohol you need to get sober and stay sober for a few weeks at least. And, then it is time to see a therapist that can help you work through these issues while you are clear, sober and rigorously honest. ...Read more

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When ever i mastubate, don't know why but i feel that mastubating is changing my body in a bad way and i also feel that it is harming my body. True?

When ever i mastubate, don't know why but i feel that mastubating is changing my body in a bad way and i also feel that it is harming my body. True?

Unlikely to matter: Masturbation is a topic often frowned on by various segments of society ; seldom discussed openly. If done to the point that the individual does not have time ; energy to get involved in normal peer activities it is a negative. Any obsession detracts from your healthy emotional growth. However, the occasional event does not make any difference in your physical growth.Ditch any guilt, it is normal. ...Read more

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I feel insecure about my self a lot , when I look in the mirror I feel as if I'm not good enough.I want to change this but have no clue where to start?

I feel insecure about my self a lot , when I look in the mirror I feel as if I'm not good enough.I want to change this but have no clue where to start?

At 17 it is normal: o feel this way. You are going through a very chaotic phase in life and in the process doing a lot of work getting to know yourself. Virtually everyone your age feels the way you do even though most will not admit it. I can't take away the struggle but I can tell you that you are more than good enough and you will know that . You can make sure this is the case by simply Doing your best at everything you do and making it a point to help others. Talk with your parents and believe them when they say good things about you. Tell yourself this is a stormy time but you have what it takes to make it through. If you can, volunteer to be a peer counselor at your school. ...Read more

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Why do I have like mood swings when im in a relationship with a guy but when I don't have a bf when im lonely my moods aren't that bad. Why is that?

Why do I have like mood swings when im in a relationship with a guy but when I don't have a bf when im lonely my moods aren't that bad. Why is that?

Ever listen to us?: Minor HAHA there to get us rolling. Seriously, even if we're alone (i.e. not in a relationship) sometimes it's easier to be around OURSELVES than around others. That being said, it seems you WANT to be around men but then, for some reason your mood swings sabotage the relationship. Seeing a good psych doctor will help discover where the glitch lies so you can make necessary adjustments. Good luck. ...Read more

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When I speak to people I don't know I just like a rabbit in the headlights and really awkward why is this?

When I speak to people I don't know I just like a rabbit in the headlights and really awkward why is this?

Natural instinct: When faced with the unknown we assume its a threat until proven otherwise and so the body prepares to deal with the threat by releasing adrenaline which prepares us for fight or flight by shunting blood flow to muscles and brain. In the modern world neither option is viable so, like the rabbit, we freeze. As you talk to more strangers in similar situations this perception of threat will fade. ...Read more

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Okay my boyfriend and i are trying to have a baby and i don't know if it is a sign that i'm sick feeling and constipated. Natural way

Okay my boyfriend and i are trying to have a baby and i don't know if it is a sign that i'm sick feeling and constipated. Natural way

Hello. : Hello. Classic pregnancy symptoms normally don't begin until a woman misses her period. Constipation and nausea can occur as well as feeling tired, urinating more often, loss of period, vomiting, headaches, insomnia, swollen or tender breasts, increased gas etc. If you believe you are pregnant you can take a standard home pregnancy test as soon as you miss your period. Take care. ...Read more

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Why is it that the only time i want to clean get up and i feel good about myself is when i take a vicodin. I feel like that's all i need and want.

Why is it that the only time i want to clean get up and i feel good about myself is when i take a vicodin. I feel like that's all i need and want.

Opiates and anxiety: Opiate are powerful for making cares of world diminish, but this is delusion. Unfotrtunately, opiates can be addictive, interfere with astute decision making, & disrupt attendance to what you need to do to survive and prosper in life. Opiates will diminish your ability to be successful and have truly good friends. Perhaps you need counseling to deal with life stress, angst, and poor self-image. ...Read more

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I got molested as a child but i don't remember it and i want to know what is wrong with me?

I got molested as a child but i don't remember it and i want to know what is wrong with me?

There may be nothing: Wrong with you or you may be suffering greatly. The fact that you cannot remember is common among sexual abuse victims. It is indeed a common reason for someone to enter therapy. Painful memories can easily be repressed. There's no problem with that as long as they do not affect your mood, behavior, or relationships in adulthood. If they do, then it would be advisable for you to enter therapy to explore the issue further.If you wish to remember what happened, then more of an uncovering psychoanalytictherapy with hypnotic components may be advisable. If you do not wish to remember then that is entirely a decision between you and your therapist and will have a lot to do with both your and your therapists perceptions of your over all psychological strength. Best wishes. ...Read more

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I've always been attracted girls, but i was in a 4 year relationship with a guy, and now there's a girl that i truly like.. But i feel so confused..

I've always been attracted girls, but i was in a 4 year relationship with a guy, and now there's a girl that i truly like.. But i feel so confused..

Life is confusing: It is not unusual to go through changes in orientation during your formative years. Some will easily go down one road while others may find both equally appealing.You do not need to limit yourself to a particular identity. You have plenty of time to explore life and discover what works for you. ...Read more

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I honestly never want to speak and i rather remain silent even when i need to speak and i don't have fun like everyone else. Is this my anxiety?

I honestly never want to speak and i rather remain silent even when i need to speak and i don't have fun like everyone else. Is this my anxiety?

Too scared to talk: Social anxiety involves a fear of being judged negatively by others or being seen as inferior 2 them in some way. This leads 2 dreading social situations & social interactions, & thus 2 avoiding them. Selective mutism is tied 2 social anxiety: At times, people w/social anxiety find themselves so fearful in social situations that it's difficult 2 speak. Some simply don't speak in these situ ...Read more

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I don't think you guys are even reading my questions. Cold feeling in my chest that bothers me a lot. I have to wear a jacket. It's not normal right?

I don't think you guys are even reading my questions. Cold feeling in my chest that bothers me a lot. I have to wear a jacket. It's not normal right?

Hmmm...: This is a challenging question given what is presented. A localized sensation of cold in the chest could be how your body interprets pain in the region--for instance, an erosion (sore) in the esophagus or stomach may be perceived in many ways by an individual. True loss of core temperature could be a thyroid issue or low blood sugar. I would first recommend an exam and possibly chest XR to start. ...Read more

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Sometimes I just feel like I want to have more fun before settling down even though I love this girl, what should I do?

Sometimes I just feel like I want to have more fun before settling down even though I love this girl, what should I do?

Grow up: You may love her, but clearly you need to do more emotional maturing before getting into a committed relationship. It's not fair to you and certainly not fair to her otherwise. Sometimes though that growth can be gotten by looking at what you are going for. Is it that you want more fun, or that you are scared of the relationship? ...Read more

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I can't feel emotions like happiness,sorrow and joy. i am a feeling less man and worried about it. answer me as soon as possible.

Depression: You have anhidonia, and no interests in things that can make you happy, you are feeling less of a man as a result. You need to go to a psychiatrist for treatment. or a primary care physician trained to deal with mental problems ;like depression., ...Read more

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I am feeling myself a feeling less man. I can't feel emotions like happiness,sorrow and joy. I am worried much about it. Suggest me. ?

I am feeling myself a feeling less man. I can't feel emotions like happiness,sorrow and joy. I am worried much about it. Suggest me. ?

Therapy?: Have you yet tried any form of psychotherapy? Typically, the optimal combination of things to treat emotional issues such as depression is medication (which, on your best day, is supposed to take the edge off symptoms) but the real gruntwork takes place in psychotherapist's consulting room. ...Read more

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Anxiety? How do I deal with mine any lil sick feeling i think i can die from it & any ha i get scared. It's taking over my life i can't b happy or wor

Anxiety? How do I deal with mine any lil sick feeling i think i can die from it & any ha i get scared. It's taking over my life i can't b happy or wor

Somatic anxiety: People can become quite anxious or preoccupied with symptoms and complaints - to a degree it interferes with functioning and quality of life. It is always important to rule out real medical disorders first. Anxieties can often be managed with techniques see: http://cpancf.Com/anxietydisordersbasics.Asp, but some people become what we call somatically depressed & need therapy plus meds. ...Read more

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I get very strong feeling to pass ruination . Some times one or two drops pass and i can't control . I am 54 year man?

I get very strong feeling to pass ruination . Some times one or two drops pass and i can't control . I am 54 year man?

? enlarged prostate: Please consult your doctor for an examination to see if you have an enlarged prostate. Prostatic enlargement is a common cause of urinary problems in men over 50. ...Read more

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Why is it not a good idea to tell someone depressed or anxious to stop feeling sorry for themselves? Won't it make them man up and get over things?

Why is it not a good idea to tell someone depressed or anxious to stop feeling sorry for themselves? Won't it make them man up and get over things?

Probably not: Someone who worries aka anxiety will now likely worry that you don't like or respect them and avoid or shy away from you. A depressed person already feels bad enough you don't need to additionally point it out to them (they know). If you want to be helpful you can empathize and say yeah that sucks or just point out how its not so bad and there are other positive things to focus on. ...Read more

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Im 27.. man....i m unable to get orgasm at the end of intercourse. Thou i have good erection i arouse very easy but no feeling good after sex?

Im 27.. man....i m unable to get orgasm at the end of intercourse. Thou i have good erection i arouse very easy but no feeling good after sex?

Get seen: For some men, erection is easy but ejaculation is difficult in some or all circumstances. For example, many men find getting oral sex extremely exciting but can't climax. If this is a factor in all situations, including when you're by yourself, it may be from meds (SSRI's, etc). If just intercourse, work with your partner on positioning and so forth. Ask your doctor if yohimbine is right for you. ...Read more

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Started on Prozac (fluoxetine) for ocd+anxiety a couple of mos ago. Lately been feeling very happy all the time, I feel so lucky & I love my life. Is this normal?

Started on Prozac (fluoxetine) for ocd+anxiety a couple of mos ago. Lately been feeling very happy all the time, I feel so lucky & I love my life. Is this normal?

Yes, but: It is OK to feel good, and love your life. However, if you are concerned you are having a Mania episode, triggered by the fluoxetine, you need to talk to your provider immediately. Have the provider assess you for mania or hypomania; if you do not have these, then you are doing very well! Be safe, and talk to your provider. ...Read more

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I can't eat,even the food i love,if see them or think of them or smell them i get nauseated,it started with needle feeling in my heart n muscles hurt?

I can't eat,even the food i love,if see them or think of them or smell them i get nauseated,it  started with needle feeling in my heart n muscles hurt?

Appetite change: Any abrupt changes in appetite, especially when combined with other physical symptoms, indicates a problem. See your doctor for evaluation ! ...Read more

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Drugs never made me feel different. I get the racing heartbeat, dilated eyes, after effects but no feeling happy, hallucinations; is something wrong?

Drugs never made me feel different. I get the racing heartbeat, dilated eyes, after effects but no feeling happy, hallucinations; is something wrong?

Perhaps your body: is telling you something. Recreational drugs can be fun, but they are bad for you. If you don't even have a "happy" time, why bother? Go find a healthy way to have a "happy." ...Read more

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Blood in urine, do men get UTI also? I am seeing blood in my urine and feeling pressure only when i go urinate. The only symptoms i had before i started seeing blood yesterday was discharge of a thick substance showing up on my underware for about a week.

Blood in urine, do men get UTI also? I am seeing blood in my urine and feeling pressure only when i go urinate. The only symptoms i had before i started seeing blood yesterday was discharge of a thick substance showing up on my underware for about a week.

Absolutely: Men can definitely get utis. Symptoms of blood in the urine also require evaluation to rule out diagnoses other than UTI including stones and tumors of the urinary tract. Start by seeing your urologist and getting a urinalysis and urine culture. And a hematuria (blood in urine) workup if blood confirmed in urine. You urologist will direct the diagnosis and treatment following these tests. ...Read more

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How to get rid of man boobs and love handles fast?

How to get rid of man boobs and love handles fast?

Liposuction: Liposuction would be best for the love handles provided that you have good skin tone that will recontour when the fat is gone. Excision of the subareolar tissue of the breasts accompanied by liposuction would help the gynecomastia. These procedures will be best if you are at an ideal weight. Good luck! ...Read more

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In love with married man. So conflicted I can't understand my own feelings.?

In love with married man. So conflicted I can't understand my own feelings.?

Counselor: You should talk to a counselor about your feelings before you take action and potentially ruin a marriage. ...Read more

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I've fallen in love with a married man who I know has feelings for me too, what should I do?

RUN!!: It is never a good idea to date a married person! 1st of all if the person is willing to cheat on his spouse, what will stop him from cheating on you? Secondly, put yourself in the spouse's position. How would you feel if your spouse was cheating on you? Plus, there are some states that have a law where the spouse can sue you for breaking up their marriage. Wait for the divorce or look elsewhere. ...Read more

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What can I do to get rid of man boobs and love handles?

What can I do to get rid of man boobs and love handles?

Old fashioned: Diet and exercise, for weight loss. If that doesn't work quick enough for your tummy, you might consider coolsculpting or liposuction. Gynecomastia reduction surgery may be required for your chest, if conservative measures don't work for you. ...Read more

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If my man excreted a clear fluid doing arousal does that mean he really excited and happy with the love making?

If my man excreted a clear fluid doing arousal does that mean he really excited and happy with the love making?

Maybe a little: Clear, pre-ejaculate fluid occurs in all men during sexual arousal, but more in some men than others. (Sometimes called pre-cum, for obvious reasons.) It also occurs with nocturnal erections during dream sleep. In other words, it's physiologic. However, pre-ejaculate fluid may appear more quickly or in greater amounts if he is especially excited, so perhaps you can take some of the credit for it! ...Read more

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