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An erection refers to the stiff or erect penis. An erection that is " normal" means that it is ...Read more


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Am I gay if when ever I look at tighty whities I get an erection?

Am I gay if when ever I look at tighty whities I get an erection?

Maybe, maybe not: No two men are the same. Many men get excited when their team scores a touchdown, watching a man ride a bull at a rodeo, seeing a military parade, riding the subway and getting jostled, or anything else that says "being male is great." which it is. Only a few percent of us prefer to partner with another man, but that's fine too. Talk with somebody wise and understanding, and be glad to be you. ...Read more

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Why after sex do I just want to be alone, bathe and sleep? I don't want to cuddle like most girls do. I get angry with my partner after sex.

Why after sex do I just want to be alone, bathe and sleep? I don't want to cuddle like most girls do. I get angry with my partner after sex.

Well, I don't know : The cause of your post traumatic stress disorder. Perhaps that has something to do with your anger toward your partner and your wish to isolate. It really isn't something that can be dealt with adequately on line. Obviously it is impacting your life. It is worth dealing with in therapy. Take care. ...Read more

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I'm not getting satisfied sexually anymore. Very sexual and orgasmic in the past. Now when I do begin to get aroused, rarely, i seem to get bored.

I'm not getting satisfied sexually anymore. Very sexual and orgasmic in the past. Now when I do begin to get aroused, rarely, i seem to get bored.

Female Sexuality: Libido can wax and wain with age, emotions, and fatigue. This is common. I often have my friends and female patients review this book or website: http://www.Ourbodiesourselves.Org. This group of women are dedicated to help women regain their sexuality and the permission to explore their bodies and libido. ...Read more

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Do women have to close their eyes during an orgasm? I want to see her looking at me.

Do women have to close their eyes during an orgasm? I want to see her looking at me.

No but she may want: No, she does not have to clothes her eyes during an orgasm, but if she enjoys closing her eyes, or she is uncomfortable with you looking at her while she is "out of control", then don't make a big deal out of it. Be thankful she is with you and having an orgasm. Make her as comfortable as you can. Maybe then she will want to keep her eyes open. ...Read more

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I don't secrete any pre-cum at all. How can I get my body to secrete it? I find it very sexy when my partners do. Why can't i?

I don't secrete any pre-cum at all. How can I get my body to secrete it?  I find it very sexy when my partners do. Why can't i?

Everyone is differen: Depending on your own biologic make-up, sexual arousal and stimulation and locus of control, one may or may not secrete "pre-cum". This is a fluid made by the cowper's glands in the distal penis. It is most likely secreted for lubrication. It is a clear thin liquid as opposed to a thick opaque fluid like semen. This may just be you and nothing more. Try more arousal and stimulaltion. ...Read more

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What can I do about my partner's bed wetting? Do they make any nice looking adult pull-ups

What can I do about my partner's bed wetting?  Do they make any nice looking adult pull-ups

No they don't: Adult "depends" are pretty ugly. Has your partner seen a urologist? Cause for the bedwetting needs to be identified & should be treated. Partner might benefit from medication such as desmopressin (ddavp) pills (up to 3 x 0.2mg) before bed to reduce volume urine produced at night, or long-acting anticholinergics, like Oxybutynin er, Detrol la or vesicare, (solifenacin) to increase functional bladder capacity. ...Read more

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At what age can you masturbate and not ruien your sex drive when you get older?

At what age can you masturbate and not ruien your sex drive when you get older?

No such thing: There's no such thing as masturbation "ruining" one's sex drive. For a young person, masturbation can be a great idea. It familiarizes a young woman with her body and how her sex organs work, what pleases her, etc. In this way, she can communicate what pleases her and what doesn't to her partners. Communication is one of the most important aspects of having a healthy sex life. ...Read more

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Why does girls and guys hit puberty younger but if they have sex before 18 they get in trouble?

Why does girls and guys hit puberty younger but if they have sex before 18 they get in trouble?

Nature vs culture: I've always thought it sad kids got all the physical parts & urges of adulthood long before the wiring in the brain finished. Reproductive urges probably did humans well thousands of yrs ago when people seldom lived past 40. Now the society u live in wants u to wait & recognize the good/bad choices for what they are. No body owes u a living or easy access to sex.Welcome to the real world. ...Read more

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Why do I get an itchy vagina at night time?

Why do I get an itchy vagina at night time?

Allergies/infection: There are many possibilities. The vulvar area is prone to environmental sensitivities, like allergies, that can cause itching. Why at night? Maybe you are sensitive to the laundry soap your sheets are washed in? Infections, such as an external yeast infection, or pubic lice, or even pinworm, are all possibilities. Get examined to rule those out. ...Read more

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Why do I get an erection while talking to my female friend?

Why do I get an erection while talking to my female friend?

Attraction : May be you have an attraction to her causing arousal which is typically normal. Sexual arousal or excitment is the arousal of sexual desire. A number of physiological changes in the mind and body occur in anticipation of sex. Men usually get an erection. May be your attraction for her is at a higher level (subconscious), or conscious if you are actively wanting her. Hope this helps. ...Read more

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Why when getting a vaginal exam (male or female dr.) done do I get sexually aroused?I have to try and stop myself from orgasm. Is this normal?

Attention: If you feel comfortable discussing such things with the dr., tell them of your distress. Bringing it to light may have it lessen or go away altogether under those circumstances. Yes, it is normal for some people, both men and women, of your age to experience this. It is part of the sexual instinct, but can be alarming in a clinical setting. ...Read more

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I want to masturbate 2 or 3 times a day but i masturbating first time i become hate to sex what can i do to make in mood after masturbating?

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I want to masturbate 2 or 3 times a day but i masturbating first time i become hate to sex what can i do to make in mood after masturbating?

Here are some...: You said you have hated masturbation after its firs time, why did you want to masturbate 2-3 times a day? In your situation, one would need to know more history of specifics, relevance, & sequence of events of all symptoms and general health & specific sexual background + physical exam before a reasonable answer can be deduced. How to do it? To articles in http://formefirst.com/onDealSickness.html ...Read more

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What to do if i get naked on camera for older guys to make myself feel better?

What to do if i get naked on camera for older guys to make myself feel better?

Many options: If you are doing this because you feel good doing it, then it can be a sort of public service. You might be doing it for financial reward. But be cautious about distribution of such pictures. In this age of rapid transfer on media and the internet, this could come back to haunt you. If totally, and predictably, private, then you might consider this option. ...Read more

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Age21.When i look at women like young maid or prostitute, i start to have leakage of semen! why I am attracting towards these women just to have sex?

Age21.When i look at women like young maid or prostitute, i start to have leakage of semen! why I am attracting towards these women just to have sex?

Wow: You"leak" semen when you see a maid? You also ask a lot of questions about masturbation and testosterone. The desire for sex is not unusual but the spontaneous ejaculation with only visual stimulation is unusual. The recurrent issues over sex and sexuality, point to the possibility of getting improvement via psychotherapy. No shame and can alter your life's trajectory. Good luck. ...Read more

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What to do if I'm a straight guy..i feel attracted to girls..but I don't masturbate. .i love girls..but do not masturbate.?

What to do if I'm a straight guy..i feel attracted to girls..but I don't masturbate. .i love girls..but do not masturbate.?

What are you asking?: The vast majority of us men love women. There's no explaining the power they have over us. Love wisely, and if you're fortunate to find that one special person who's truly right for you, make it clear to her in every way that she's the most important thing for you. Even in times like ours when relationships are challenging, you might find happiness. Have you talked with Dad about your body? ...Read more

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I get full erection.But when i start doing it with my partner, i get confused & erection goes away.What can I do to make it normal/fine :/?

I get full erection.But when i start doing it with my partner, i get confused & erection goes away.What can I do to make it normal/fine :/?

Find the cause first: To assess if one's erections have weakened, he should visit a primary doctor, who can check for possible causes: stress, depression, diabetes, high blood pressure, low testosterone, artery disease, high cholesterol, smoking, older age, etc... Causes found can be treated to help make erections stronger, firmer, longer lasting. A urologist can evaluate. Meds like viagra, cialis, or Levitra (vardenafil) may help. ...Read more

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Why do I get an erection just for laying in bed when I am about to sleep even though I have no sexual desiers?

Why do I get an erection just for laying in bed when I am about to sleep even though I have no sexual desiers?

Body's horny, UR not: This is not at all abnormal or uncommon. Sometimes it is simply a case of a high physical libido without the psychological libido.. You may be too tired or not in the mood, but mr everready stands at attention. I suspect it happens to most if not all men at some point. As you age it can reverse, so enjoy it while you've got it. ...Read more

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Why do I want to have sex with every girl i look at ?

Why do I want to have sex with every girl i look at ?

Because you're a man: The key is to behave like a gentleman & don't try to act out what you're thinking. Most men find a loving relationship more satisfying than promiscuity. If you're obsessed with erotica to the point of its interfering with your daily life, working, studying, or making friends, your physician can help. If dad is a reasonable guy, this might be a great time to talk with him. ...Read more