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I am very less confident and i cant talk with any one freely and also i am always unconfertable when i am with some one i dont know.please help me?

I am very less confident and i cant talk with any one freely and also i am always unconfertable when i am with some one i dont know.please help me?

Therapy: You seem to be shy certainly, and lacking in confidence. The fact that you asked the question on line however is a very good sign that you are taking steps to help your issues. See your Dr. and they can get you into therapy to help with your insecurities abut yourself and improve your outlook overtime. Best wishes. ...Read more

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Why every time I am intimate with my husband I do not climax?

Why every time I am intimate with my husband I do not climax?

Female Sexuality: Very few females have orgasm from intercourse. Females and their caring partners usually learn to include clitoral stimulation as part of the sexual play so that both partners are experiencing the orgasm pleasure that sexual activity brings. I often recommend that my female friends have read "our bodies our selves" to take ownership of their own sexuality. ...Read more

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I am scared of having sex because I have never had sex before.please doctors advice me not to be scared.is it painful when you have sex for virgins?

I am scared of having sex because I have never had sex before.please doctors advice me not to be scared.is it painful when you have sex for virgins?

Take your time: Don't feel pressured into having sex. Experience it when you feel you are ready. When you find yourself ready for it remember to use proper precautions. ...Read more

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I want to be pregnant, and i made love with my hubby whenever am ovulating but still am still menstruating. Why and what can I do medically?

I want to be pregnant, and i made love with my hubby whenever am ovulating but still am still menstruating. Why and what can I do medically?

Depends: If you have tried for a long time witoiut results it might be time to see a fertility expert. If not just do it and do not time it. Spontaneity might be the best thing. ...Read more

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I am 29 years..Male..Want to hav a baby..But I am not able to get erection while havin sex with m wife..So i want to do it medically. So please help?

I am 29 years..Male..Want to hav a baby..But I am not able to get erection while havin sex with m wife..So i want to do it medically. So please help?

Fertility: Need to see fertility specialist who specializes in in vitro & in utero (artificial insemination) fertilization techniques. May also wish to see counsellor (if sperm count, etc r normal) to work out possible psychological problems interfering with erection. Also quit smoking; get cholesterol & diabetes under control (if apply); avoid drugs that may affect erection. ...Read more

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I am not going through menses I am scared because i had romance but not sex. I am really going towards pregnancy or what ? Suggest me some test or med

I am not going through menses I am scared because i had romance but not sex. I am really going towards pregnancy or what ? Suggest me some test or med

Delayed menses: Don't worry. One does not 'go towards' pregnancy. It is an either/or condition. Either you are pregnant or you are not, and if you did not have sex then you cannot be pregnant. You can do a home pregnancy test to reassure yourself. ...Read more

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How do I talk to my dr about sex? IV tried but I can never get the words out. im frustrated because im 20 and can not even please myself sexually? yes im a virgin but I still feel like I should please myself

How do I talk to my dr about sex? IV tried but I can never get the words out. im frustrated because im 20 and can not even please myself sexually? yes im a virgin but I still feel like I should please myself

Just ask!: There's nothing magic about it: just ask! It may feel more natural to make an appt for birth control advice. These days, most primary care doctors (family med, gyn, internists) are trained, experienced and prepared for questions about sex. You can increase the odds of a good reception with a recently trained doctor, e.g. under age 40-45, and you may be more comfortable with a female doctor. ...Read more

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Sceans last 1month I am not staying with my wife so how would i know my wife have got intercourse with someone or not i need to know please answer me?

Sceans last 1month I am not staying with my wife so how would i know my wife have got intercourse  with someone or not i need to know please answer me?

Wife: This is an interesting question. You will never know just by looking at her. If you have a good marriage then honesty should prevail - you could ask her. If she gets pregnant then its obvious. Alternatively you could have someone spy on her but be careful this could backfire. ...Read more

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I know I am paranoid about taking medication in pregnancy. I have cleared it with my doctor but I am still concerned?

I know I am  paranoid about taking  medication in pregnancy. I have cleared it with my doctor but I am still concerned?

Some are safe.: Some medications are safe in pregnancy. This issue has been studied extensively by the fda and the medications are "graded" according to their safety profile. Your obstetrician is aware of these drug classes and makes recommendations accordingly. ...Read more

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Why do I always ask mom for approval/reassurance when I am 24?

Why do I always ask mom for approval/reassurance when I am 24?

Respect: Many adults look to their parents for approval and guidance even when they are adults because parents know their children well, and in general always want the best for them. ...Read more

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I am diabetes 2 and I want to get married but I am worried about myself that my penis doesn't erect and not have enough sperm when I masterbate. is?

I am diabetes 2 and I want to get married but I am worried about myself that my penis doesn't erect and not have enough sperm when I masterbate. is?

Here are some...: What & who you are represent what & who you have been. Aging contributes to most of erectile dysfunction (ED), and diabetes mellitus may add more negative impact to ED and may be related with retrograde ejaculation. To learn how to deal with possible and life from now on, peruse the articles in http://formefirst.com/eNewsletter06.html & in the articles in http://formefirst.com/eBlogList.html. ...Read more

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Hello i would like to ask some question. I feel no happy everyday and everytime. I always worry. Now I have worry mind without i know & automitically?

Hello i would like to ask some question. I feel no happy everyday and everytime. I always worry. Now I have worry mind without i know & automitically?

See your doctor: The most sure-fire way to know how to understand your symptoms is to get a professional evaluation. I suggest starting with your doctor and then seeing a specialist like a psychiatrist or psychologist if your doctor suggests it or refers you to someone. The positive news is that all of these conditions respond well to effective treatments. Don't delay, make an appointment so you can get better. ...Read more

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I am too much worried, my partner nd I think we had sex and I might have lost my virginity now I am worries how can I be assure of this or pregnancy?

I am too much worried, my partner nd I think we had sex and I might have lost my virginity now I am worries how can I be assure of this or pregnancy?

Check your periods..: If there was penetration of his penis inside your vagina it'scertainly possible that you might get pregnant.Check your period next time you are due and if you are usually regular every month and this month is different it is possible.If this happens anyway the best way to find out is to get a pregnancy test which I am not sure how easy is for you to access.If not go and see a doctor.Hope the best. ...Read more

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While sex (with my wife) i m no reaction (hardness) no sex feelings, so very dis hearted i think i make you understand ii'm not good in english?

While sex (with my wife) i m no reaction (hardness) no sex feelings, so very dis hearted i think i make you understand ii'm not good in english?

ED: It could be erectile dysfunction, stress, anxiety, or several other things. Continue to try and relax(remove stress). If it continues, follow up with a doctor to determine if you need treatment for ed. ...Read more

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I am a female, and i am 18yrs old. I started masturbating since it helps me instead of self harming. But i would like to know how to feel while i masturbate? I mean since i stopped having that good feeling?

I am a female, and i am 18yrs old. I started masturbating since it helps me instead of self harming. But i would like to know how to feel while i masturbate? I mean since i stopped having that good feeling?

Hard to say: First I am glad you are not hurting yourself anymore. Emotions can be strong and confusing at times. Masturbation can have some positive effects but as with any activity if your mood worsens or you spend too much time in this activity you may consider visiting with a therapist. http://www.webmd.com/women/features/female-masturbation-5-things-know ...Read more