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When Will My First Orgasm Come Active For A Year
Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male ...Read more
I am 34 year woman, sexually active but never experienced orgasm. I have no sexual desire and i feel let down as I am not able to fulfill my partner
Need more info: I wonder if u have had any experiences that make it difficult for you to enjoy sex? Is there abuse in your past? Did your family-of-origin express attitudes about intimacy that now make you feel guilty when you have sex? Have you had the chance to study/learn about human sexuality? Have u been evaluated by an md to rule out other problems? Counseling with a sex therapist might help. Good luck! ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I have been sexually active for years but have never had an orgasm (woman). Is there something wrong with me?
No, its common: Many women have a hard time having an orgasm. Some women never do. Some can only have an orgasm through oral or manual stimulation, not with sex. This can be fixed if it bothers you. First get a physical exam to make sure you are normal, ie no hooded clitoris, etc. Then ask for help from a sex therapist. 90+% of 1st orgasms happen with masturbation, so if you have never had one, start with that. ...Read more
I've been sexually active for years now but I've never had an orgasm. I only have one by masterbating. Why? Is it normal? And how can I change that?
Common: According to planned parenthood statistics, as many as 1 in 3 women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex. And as many as 80 percent of women have difficulty with orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. In other words, there is nothing abnormal about your experience. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Of course: As women age, vaginal secretions decline as estrogen (and testosterone) wane. It may take longer for an older woman to get excited and lubrication may be an issue. The right stimulation and addressing comfort issues(position, lubrication, etc) and time will ensure an orgasm. Self stimulation is a way to determine what feels good and effectively helps the woman climax. ...Read more
Definitely: People, including children of all ages can experience orgasm. An eight-year-old boy who masturbates can achieve a "dry" orgasm beacause his semen producing glands have not yet developed. Unless is rare case of precocious puberty, in which case could have an ejaculatory orgasm. Fyi, some nannies in victorian times stimulated genitals of baby boys & girls to orgasm to induce post-orgasmic sleep. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Normal: This is normal from the rush of hormones and the relaxation muscles afterwards. At your age be careful you don't put yourself in a dangerous situation when this occurs. ...Read more
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