Top
30
Doctor insights on: When We Hug I Feel My Boyfriends Erection

Share
1

1
What can I do to make my boyfriends erection harder?

What can I do to make my boyfriends erection harder?

Basics: Have your boy friend avoid alcohol before sex. Suggest he sees a urologist. He may benefit from medication such as viagra (sildenafil) or cialis, however these should be prescribed by a physician. Avoid medications from so-called on-line suppliers as these may be fake medications and can actually make you ill. ...Read more

Erection (Definition)

An erection refers to the stiff or erect penis. An erection that is " normal" means that it is ...Read more


2

2
My boyfriend has a hard time getting an erection and keeping it, he's 21.

My boyfriend has a hard time getting an erection and keeping it, he's 21.

Keeping erection: At any age both mental and physical issues exist that can cause erectile dysfunction. An evaluation by a urologist is best. ...Read more

3

3
My boyfriend has a hard time getting an erection and keeping it. He's 21, and this just started a few days ago when he was ill.

My boyfriend has a hard time getting an erection and keeping it. He's 21, and this just started a few days ago when he was ill.

May be do to the: Illness. If the illness is not resolving see a doctor. If e is still having erection problems after the illness has resolved see a doctor. ...Read more

4

4
My boyfriend sometimes can not keep an erection, sometimes difficult to achieve an erection. He's only 23, what could this be?

Usually anxiety: Although there sometimes are mechanical problems such as blood flow, nerve problems or hormone problems, the vast majority of difficulties maintaining erections in a young healthy man are things like anxiety or guilt or relationship issues. ...Read more

5

5
My boyfriend wouldn't masturbate in front of me. He says it pains when he has an erection?

Interesting story: Pain with an erection may be due to a tight foreskin or penile frenum (fold between glans and foreskin), chordee or if too much skin was removed at circumcision. He may also be too embarassed to masturbate in front of you. He would also want to avoid sex if erection is painful. Perhaps he should go for a consultation with a urologist. ...Read more

6

6
What can I do if my boyfriend hasn't been able to get an erection for two days know. What could be the reason?

What can I do if my boyfriend hasn't been able to get an erection for two days know. What could be the reason?

Relax: There are many psychological and physical causes of erectile dysfunction -- and the most common is stress. Also alcohol, tobacco, opiates, anabolics and certain medication. Don't pressure him, but be nurturing and it will usually correct itself. If not, have him see his doctor. Go slow, and remember there are many ways to enjoy sex. Try some of them. ...Read more

7

7
What could cause my boyfriend to get painful erections after 1 orgasm?

What could cause my boyfriend to get painful erections after 1 orgasm?

Priapism: Painful prolonged erection can occur when the blood supply that causes the erection does not return to normal. This can happen with taking ed meds such as viagra, cialis, levitra (vardenafil). It can also happen for no reason at all. If the painful erection lasts more than 1-2 hours, get help! Call your doctor and get seen immediately or go to the local emergency room. Loss of penis is rare but possible! ...Read more

8

8
My boyfriend gets an erection but as soin as he puts on the condom its gone.?

Erectile dysfunction: Assuming he is a young healthy male, I suspect anxiety is a likely cause of his ed. I suspect he practice putting on condoms by himself severaly times first and masterbate as a form of exposure therapy. Seeing an md who can prescribe a viagra (sildenafil) like med might help make it more likely to last and get over the fear of failure. ...Read more

9

9
My boyfriend loses his erection right before ejaculation. What could be the problem?

My boyfriend loses his erection right before ejaculation. What could be the problem?

Life!: Premature ejaculation in sexually inexperienced men tend to be related to excitement, fear, and worry. Young men have not yet learned to take their time, and do not realize that the arousal levels of young women require a bit more stimulation. Going to the library and reading about techniques for dealing with this may help, if the two of you have patience and are willing to help each other. ...Read more

11

11
Why cant my boyfriend ejaculate after the second time of sex? He will have an erection for 2 hours but won't be able to ejaculate. Is this normal?

Refractory period: There is a certain amount of time which varies from man during which, although able to obtain and maintain an erection, he will not be able to ejaculate: this is called a refractory period. Additionally, stress and performance anxiety can contribute to this. Best idea: understand that time is an issue and use that time wisely, to slowly and gradually stimulate him...and yourself- it will work...j ...Read more

12

12
Hi I am gay and my boy friend does not like it when I get an erection and I don't either so I was wondering if there is a way I can stop getting erect?

Hi I am gay and my boy friend does not like it when I get an erection and I don't either so I was wondering if there is a way I can stop getting erect?

Erections...: ....Are a normal result of arousal in males whether they are gay or strait. There is no way for you to be sexually aroused but not have erections without damaging yourself. I am worried that you dislike your own erections. You need a good counselor with whom you can discuss this, so that you can explore the reasons for this feeling. ...Read more

13

13
How to figure out why can't my boyfriend sustain an erection?

Ideas: If he can't sustain an erection with his favorite "adult" images or fantasies -- and he may or may not tell you -- he needs to get with his physician. Hemochromatosis and prolactinoma are only two possible concerns. Otherwise, agree that for two weeks you will not attempt intercourse but work on finding other ways to give each other physical ; emotional pleasure. Explore well ; problem self-cures. ...Read more

14

14
Please help me! My boyfriend can't get an erection when we try to have sex?

You both need: To relax, take it slow, have fun with foreplay and other forms of sexual stimulation. Generally stress and anxiety are the cause, but if the above doesn't help, have him seek medical advice and an evaluation from his doctor. Tobacco, alcohol and certain medications can also interfere. ...Read more

15

15
What can I do, medically speaking, to help my boyfriend maintain an erection?

See a doctor: There are many causes for difficulty maintaining erections. He should have a general medical evaluation to screen for heart disease, high blood pressure, high cholesterol and low testosterone. If everything checks out ok, the medications such as cialis, Levitra (vardenafil) and viagra can help. ...Read more

16

16
My boyfriend started having pain when getting and erection. N it feels weird to him when he pees. We do have a lot of intercourse.

My boyfriend started having pain when getting and erection. N it feels weird to him when he pees. We do have a lot of intercourse.

No simple answer: Is this new? Anything unusual recently?
Does he have discharge from penis?
It is hard to know "what weird indicates? Is there restriction, difficulty voiding? Burning
feeling?
If he doen not have a doctor, he can visit clinic of local health dept to be checked. ...Read more

17

17
My boyfriend is 36, he is not able to get an erection at all, also when he trys to pee it takes a minutefor him to start to go, he has no pain.

See Urologist: Even if diabetic, should not have ed issues @ his age--might be stress-related issue, but should be evaluated by urologist, particularly w/the slow initiation, as could suggest prostate problem (among others). See urologist. ...Read more

18

18
My boyfriend gets hard easly but after a while if we want him hard so we can have sex his erection goes away to fast and we can't get into me?

My boyfriend gets hard easly but after a while if we want him hard so we can have sex his erection goes away to fast and we can't get into me?

Questions: Has he always been this way? Has he had this reaction with any other women? Have you had sex with each other yet? If not, perhaps he is worried/afraid and that is why he is losing his erection. ...Read more

21

21
Me and my boyfriend are both teens. Whenever we hug or kiss, I can feel his erection. Is this normal even if we aren't sexually active?

Yes: Sexual stimulation, even just hugging or kissing, can arouse men of any age to cause an erection. This is normal. But it does not obligate you to become sexually active! ...Read more

22

22
My boyfriend has had weak erections lately how do I talk with him without hurting his feelings?

My boyfriend has had weak erections lately how do I talk with him without hurting his feelings?

Very common: Make him aware of what you have noticed without being critical or angry, and let him know how common it is. I had a similar problem with my ex-girlfriend, but she would start slamming doors and vandalizing cars in the parking lot to show her frustration. Don't do this. It makes a bad situation worse. There is a laundry list of potential causes, such as stress, medications, alcohol, and nicotine. ...Read more

23

23
Boyfriend has very thick sperm and often struggles to maintain an erection. What could be causing this?

ED: Sounds like he has a variant of Erectile dysfunction (ED). ED is common and is nothing to be ashamed of. Have him see the Doctor to discuss, evaluate and treat. I doubt the thickness of his sperm has anything to do with maintaining an erection. Best wishes. ...Read more

26

26
Boyfriend can't get an erection most of the time. He is able to generally while sleeping. And he is able to ejaculate even without erection?

Boyfriends: Then he needs to see a Urologist. I am not sure what you expect from strangers on the internet. He is not the one here asking questions. He needs a thorough medical, physical, and laboratory investigation of his problem. Don't you think? ...Read more

27

27
My soon to be husband can't keep an erection during intercorse my boyfriend and I have been dating for close to 4 years and are planning on getting married this summer he is 30 and I will be 24 this april. In the past year or so we have been having proble

Your: Your fear is real. It seems you are more worried about his erectile dysfunction than he is. Sexual performance issues may becaused by diabetes, poor blood flow due to plaques in arteries, use of medications/drugs/alcohol. Other causes due to or made worse by psychological factors such as stress whether due to economic factors or internal self-esteem issues.

If, he is "more than able to make you feel good" you may wish to avoid compounding his erectile dysfunction with performance expectations for him.

You may wish to postpone the marriage until you can get this sorted out. ...Read more

28

28
My boyfriend and I tried having sexual intercourse but everytime we try he loses stamina and feels stiff. He still has an erection just no energy.

My boyfriend and I tried having sexual intercourse but everytime we try he loses stamina and feels stiff. He still has an erection just no energy.

Here are some...: Are you in 1-to-1 relationship? How long has it been? Did he have relationship with others before with you and how did he do if any? Does he has energy to conduct personal and professional daily chores & tasks effectively? Does he (or both) obsess to have sex? To sort things out correctly, follow instructions in http://formefirst. Com/eNewsletter06.html & http://formefirst. Com/eNewsletter05.html. ...Read more

29

29
My boyfriend is 36yr old, for the past 1week he doesn't reach climax, last night we try 3 times, he is experiencing lack of erection, he smoke weed?

My boyfriend is 36yr old, for the past 1week he doesn't reach climax, last night we try 3 times, he is experiencing lack of erection, he smoke weed?

Let him: See his doctor first systemic diseases like diabetes, blood pressure, hormonal deficiency, after examination will refer to a urologist, for his erectile dysfunction, drugs including 'weed ' are major contributors ...Read more

30

30
My boyfriend (20 yr old) once a week will not be able to maintain an erection. However, in other days we have sex we have no problem. Does he have ED?

My boyfriend (20 yr old) once a week will not be able to maintain an erection. However, in other days we have sex we have no problem. Does he have ED?

Something else: As your boyfriend what environment or interpersonal stressors he is experiencing before, during, and after that particular day of the week that distract him from having fulfilling sex with you. ...Read more