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Doctor insights on: When Self Masturbating How Can I Make My Orgasm Last Longer

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Orgasm (Definition)

Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male ...Read more


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When i started masturbation, my orgasm lasted longer but now after a few day when i masturbate it lasts lesser time. Why?

When i started masturbation, my orgasm lasted longer but now after a few day when i masturbate it lasts lesser time. Why?

Masturbation: Norms: This may not be an answerable question. There are too many variables. In general this does not sound like an illness and is most likely just a normal physical experience. It could be about how full or not full your prostate gland is; what you are using for stimulation and lubrication. But, in general there are no medical or health reasons to limit your sexual activity. ...Read more

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Hi. It it weird if I (a girl) orgasms very quickly when masturbating? Im a virgin also. I can never last long snd orgasm within a minute.

Hi. It it weird if I (a girl) orgasms very quickly when masturbating? Im a virgin also. I can never last long snd orgasm within a minute.

Normal: Clitoral stimulation may be intense enough to result in an orgasm quickly. You may wish to wait a few minute before continuing self stimulation if you wish to have longer period of masturbation. ...Read more

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Is masturbation healthy when you are 19 years old?(female) why does it take me a long time orgasm?

Is masturbation healthy when you are 19 years old?(female) why does it take me a long time orgasm?

Not unhealthy!: There is absolutely nothing medically wrong with masturbation, but plenty of religious and old-fashioned ideas exist that can make one feel "guilty" about it. That's also probably the reason it's an effort for you. If you are ok with it then free yourself from the "stigma" and learn what feels good. You will be a better partner if you know what you like and communicate this when ready! practice! ...Read more

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Why do I feel constipated after an orgasm / or a long, 2-3 hours, masturbating session? Is it normal?

Why do I feel constipated after an orgasm / or a long,  2-3 hours,  masturbating session? Is it normal?

3hr masturbation abn: Such long masturbation sessions are abnormal so feeling of constipation might not be unusual. Probably nf no concern if ur not constipated at other times. ...Read more

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Will masturbation before sex help me delay orgasm so we can do it longer?

Will masturbation before sex help me delay orgasm so we can do it longer?

It may: Certainly in many men masturbation prior to intercourse leads to the sex lasting longer, but for some men it may mean more difficulty getting an erection or keeping it. Sometimes its better to practice edging (where you stop just before ejaculation recurrently then resume as you get partial loss of the orgasm sensation). ...Read more

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I can no longer orgasm. how do I get it back? I believe I lost it to frequent masturbation. will reducing prolactin or increasing dopamine level work

I can no longer orgasm. how do I get it back? I believe I lost it to frequent masturbation. will reducing prolactin or increasing dopamine level work

Many factors: Many factors can lead to sexual dysfunction. While hormonal balance or med side effects can, state of mind can be another; sometimes, anxiety about it can make it worse. Abstaining from sexual activity should bring back libido more effectively than changing hormone/neurotransmitter balance. Anxiety management also. If med side effects, then med changes may be needed. ...Read more

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I masturbated in the shower yesterday, and on orgasm, intense sudden headache. Severe headache lasted 15 min., then minor headache through this a.m.

I masturbated in the shower yesterday, and on orgasm, intense sudden headache. Severe headache lasted 15 min., then minor headache through this a.m.

Thunderclap ha: Your sudden severe headache is a problem, but not critical. This is unlikely to represent an intracranial calamity, and more likely to be a migrainous event. Would contact your doctor, and start specific treatment regimen to prevent future such events. You could contact our Concierge online doctors for help also. ...Read more

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Last night I masturbated but held myself from orgasm-ing. trying to stop so I thought I shouldn't do it. Worried sperm went into bladder. Or blue ball?

Last night I masturbated but held myself from orgasm-ing. trying to stop so I thought I shouldn't do it. Worried sperm went into bladder. Or blue ball?

Ejaculation: You you stop yourself from ejaculating the ejaculate doesnt go into your bladder as its a one way track. Unless there is a problem with your urethra which i highly doubt at your age and no history of trauma or operation. Blueballs is an options and it could happen ...Read more

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Why do I have white/transparent discharge from my penis when i masturbate(with intervals, lasts 2-3hours), this is before orgasm, is this pre cum?

Why do I have white/transparent discharge from my penis when i masturbate(with intervals, lasts 2-3hours), this is before orgasm, is this pre cum?

Likely, yes: As you describe, yes, it is the pre-ejaculate that during intercourse would alter vaginal ph and lubricate to prepare / assist semen movement. ...Read more

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My breasts are sore after orgasm&sometimes collect white discharge but not actual milk. Masturbation, not sex. Last baby was 5 yrs ago.What is this?

My breasts are sore after orgasm&sometimes collect white discharge but not actual milk. Masturbation, not sex. Last baby was 5 yrs ago.What is this?

Prolactin: New onset of white discharge from sore breasts suggests you may have an excess of prolactin hormone did you take a pregnancy test? Otherwise, this can be caused by certain medications, or can come from a (usually benign) adenoma. See your doctor for an evaluation. ...Read more

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I can't have an orgasm by having sex. Only by masterbation. I am no long interested in sex. This happened after i had my saughter. How can I fix this?

I can't have an orgasm by having sex. Only by masterbation. I am no long interested in sex. This happened after i had my saughter. How can I fix this?

Female sexuality: This is actually common. There are a group of women dedicated to help you find a solution to this problem. They have a book and website: http://www.Ourbodiesourselves.Org. ...Read more

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Im 18. Why does it take me so long to have an orgasm with my boyfriend ? I do masterbate, is that a problem ?

Orgasm: Having an orgasm involves multiple factors that include both physical and psychological stimulation. Performance anxiety, and the simple fact that you think about not reaching orgasm in a timely manner can affect your ability to do so. Try discussing this with bf, and or experimenting with different sexual activities to stimulate and arouse you differently. A sex therapist can be helpful too. ...Read more

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I am a little concerned that when i masterbate it takes a long time to reach and my heart is racing and the orgasm was very fast almost zero why?

I am a little concerned that when i masterbate it takes a long time to reach and my heart is racing and the orgasm was very fast almost zero why?

Male Menopause: You very well may be out of shape, you are probably entering menopause and should have your testosterone levels checked. But, as you age your semen production declines and there is less to an orgasm. Heart racing tells me you are out of shape, have blood pressure or other heart issues. ...Read more

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How can we get extra orgasm while we're masturbating?

Sex: Unfortunately, you are asking a question that one does not go to the doctor's office to learn. There is no health related question here. I often recommend that patients who have questions on 'how to have sex' get a sex guide or manual such as "the joy of sex" to answer these common questions. ...Read more

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What should I do if i cannot orgasm while masturbating (guy)?

Vary it: No two men are the same. I am going to assume you do not have some emotional conflict over this aspect of growing up. Try different techniques, grip strength, types of lube, adding something that vibrates, some real or imaginary images. If you have a partner, vary what the two of you do. I am assuming you are not taking meds like ssri's. The drug yominbine may be helpful as well. Good luck. ...Read more