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Doctor insights on: When Self Masturbating How Can I Make My Orgasm Last Longer

Try it in the shower: Standing in tepid or cool shower might do the trick. ...Read more

Masturbation: Norms: This may not be an answerable question. There are too many variables. In general this does not sound like an illness and is most likely just a normal physical experience. It could be about how full or not full your prostate gland is; what you are using for stimulation and lubrication.

But, in general there are no medical or health reasons to limit your sexual activity. ...Read more

Normal: Clitoral stimulation may be intense enough to result in an orgasm quickly. You may wish to wait a few minute before continuing self stimulation if you wish to have longer period of masturbation. ...Read more

You can: Abstain indefinitely without adverse health consequences.

Not unhealthy!: There is absolutely nothing medically wrong with masturbation, but plenty of religious and old-fashioned ideas exist that can make one feel "guilty" about it. That's also probably the reason it's an effort for you. If you are ok with it then free yourself from the "stigma" and learn what feels good. You will be a better partner if you know what you like and communicate this when ready! Practice! ...Read more

3hr masturbation abn: Such long masturbation sessions are abnormal so feeling of constipation might not be unusual. Probably nf no concern if ur not constipated at other times. ...Read more

It may: Certainly in many men masturbation prior to intercourse leads to the sex lasting longer, but for some men it may mean more difficulty getting an erection or keeping it. Sometimes its better to practice edging (where you stop just before ejaculation recurrently then resume as you get partial loss of the orgasm sensation). ...Read more

Many factors: Many factors can lead to sexual dysfunction. While hormonal balance or med side effects can, state of mind can be another; sometimes, anxiety about it can make it worse. Abstaining from sexual activity should bring back libido more effectively than changing hormone/neurotransmitter balance. Anxiety management also. If med side effects, then med changes may be needed. ...Read more

Normal: You are achieving orgasms by masturbating & with intercourse. So there is nothing wrong with either our anatomy or physiology. Your body, at age 44 years, is maturing & has decided that you are likely having sufficient erections during your other "activities" that morning erections are a thing of the past. Unless UR prepared to stop both masturbating or intercourse 2C if morning erections return. ...Read more

Yes: Hoping you heal up well. Best wishes. ...Read more

Thunderclap ha: Your sudden severe headache is a problem, but not critical. This is unlikely to represent an intracranial calamity, and more likely to be a migrainous event.
Would contact your doctor, and start specific treatment regimen to prevent future such events. You could contact our Concierge online doctors for help also. ...Read more

Your question???: Orgasm is related to two factors: physical stimulation of a mature penis with normal hormone levels and vasculature and, more importantly, mental factors and thinking about sex. You sound like a typical young adult male. Clothinbg adjustments may help, but refocusing your mind may be the key. ...Read more

Ejaculation: You you stop yourself from ejaculating the ejaculate doesn't go into your bladder as its a one way track. Unless there is a problem with your urethra which I highly doubt at your age and no history of trauma or operation. Blueballs is an options and it could happen ...Read more

Likely, yes: As you describe, yes, it is the pre-ejaculate that during intercourse would alter vaginal ph and lubricate to prepare / assist semen movement. ...Read more

Prolactin: New onset of white discharge from sore breasts suggests you may have an excess of prolactin hormone did you take a pregnancy test? Otherwise, this can be caused by certain medications, or can come from a (usually benign) adenoma. See your doctor for an evaluation. ...Read more

Female sexuality: This is actually common. There are a group of women dedicated to help you find a solution to this problem. They have a book and website: http://www. Ourbodiesourselves. Org. ...Read more

Orgasm: Having an orgasm involves multiple factors that include both physical and psychological stimulation. Performance anxiety, and the simple fact that you think about not reaching orgasm in a timely manner can affect your ability to do so. Try discussing this with bf, and or experimenting with different sexual activities to stimulate and arouse you differently. A sex therapist can be helpful too. ...Read more

Male Menopause: You very well may be out of shape, you are probably entering menopause and should have your testosterone levels checked. But, as you age your semen production declines and there is less to an orgasm.

Heart racing tells me you are out of shape, have blood pressure or other heart issues. ...Read more

Trauma: Bleeding after masterbation only related to trauma.
Sexual trauma can cause bleeding. ...Read more

Sex: Unfortunately, you are asking a question that one does not go to the doctor's office to learn. There is no health related question here. I often recommend that patients who have questions on 'how to have sex' get a sex guide or manual such as "the joy of sex" to answer these common questions. ...Read more

Vary it: No two men are the same. I am going to assume you do not have some emotional conflict over this aspect of growing up. Try different techniques, grip strength, types of lube, adding something that vibrates, some real or imaginary images. If you have a partner, vary what the two of you do. I am assuming you are not taking meds like ssri's. The drug yominbine may be helpful as well. Good luck. ...Read more

Orgasm: Because one doesn't necessary follow the other all the time. ...Read more

Maybe: If you're always used a tight grip and/or fast strokes, it may be harder to ejaculate with some partners. Vary your technique when you're enjoying your own body, and learn to time yourself. You and that special person will both be glad. ...Read more

Not unusual your age: Men your age can often remain erect after orgasm and ejaculation, especially if there is continued visual or contact stimulation of an erotic nature. Abnormally prolonged, usually painful, erections can develop in response to oral or injected meds for ED, other meds such as antipsychotics, and in black males who have sickle cell anemia - this called priapism, and requires immediate treatment. ...Read more

You'll know: I'm going to assume you're young and still learning about your developing sexuality. A female will know. A male who begins early is likely to experience a curious, pleasant feeling after rubbing himself for some time. Eventually, this will be accompanied by ejaculation of semen. This is a major milestone for a boy, and it's unmistakable. Your same-sex parent might be someone to talk to. ...Read more

Take your time: As in sexual intercourse, "outercourse is more important than intercourse....go slowly.... ...Read more

Possibly..: ..Psychological inhibition.

No: Certainly not just with masturbation.

One idea: You may have been using a single technique, especially with a firm grip and fast stroke, when you're by yourself. After a lot of this, it becomes difficult to adjust to someone else. If you have a lasting relationship with an understanding partner, you'll eventually get accustomed to her and be able to give and receive full satisfaction. ...Read more

Retrograde ejaculate: You're describing retrograde ejaculation. The ejaculate goes "backwards" and can enter the bladder and hence enter the urine. ...Read more