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Doctor insights on: When I Climax The Feeling Is Not Like It Used To Be And The Cum Just Barely Comes Out

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During sex when I'm on top get this pulsing feeling (is that an orgasm)&i don't get that feeling in any other position, why's that? How do I know if I cum

During sex when I'm on top get this pulsing feeling (is that an orgasm)&i don't get that feeling in any other position, why's that? How do I know if I cum

Feelings: It may be a prodrome to an orgasm or it may indeed be an orgasm if it feels good relax and enjoy the sensations as you become more familiar with your body im sure the experience will come to full realization for you. ...Read more

Orgasm (Definition)

Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male ...Read more


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Is it normal to be able to ejaculate without feeling the effects of an orgasm?

Yes: When it comes to sexual experience every woman is different. Some women never achieve orgasm. Some only achieve it in certain ways. Female sexuality is a combination of emotional. Psychological and physical stimuli. Sometimes in a particular sexual experience one of those aspects dominates over another. So there is tremendous variation from woman to woman and within an individual. ...Read more

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During sex how can u know that a women has a orgasm or she cums? How?

During sex how can u know that a women has a orgasm or she cums? How?

Sexuality: Well, technically women don't ejaculate. However some call expulsion of fluid from the paraurethral duct in a female (squirting) "female ejaculation." Signs that a woman may be reaching climax can include marked excitation followed by relaxation. However, it is not uncommon if a female does not achieve orgasm. ...Read more

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I seem to have an issue during sex... No man can ever make me cum or give an orgasm, what's wrong with me?

I seem to have an issue during sex... No man can ever make me cum or give an orgasm, what's wrong with me?

Complex: Anorgasmia is a serious personal/medical problem. Sex is important & lack of satisfaction with the sex acts is disturbing. There are many causes for this. One may be medications. Review with your doctor to see if this is a potential problem. Locus of control and sensate focus are issues at hand. Are you sure of your sexuality? Can you orgasm with masturbation? You may need a sex therapist? ...Read more

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Everytime orgasm inablitiy to cum. Brown dry flakes instead. Brown liquid for a few days after what is this?

Everytime orgasm inablitiy to cum. Brown dry flakes instead. Brown liquid for a few days after what is this?

Ejaculatory duct cys: You may have a cyst blocking your ejaculatory duct. See a urologist for more investigation. ...Read more

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I've just had sex with a virgin. He did not ever cum. We had sex for almost three hours and no orgasm or cum occoured for him. Why.?!

I've just had sex with a virgin. He did not ever cum. We had sex for almost three hours and no orgasm or cum occoured for him. Why.?!

Anxiety: Most likely he was very nervous of pleasing you and on his performance since it was his first time. He didn't know what to do or what to expect. Anxiety can result in anorgasmia. Maybe the next time it won't happen. ...Read more

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I'm a femal 23 one baby and during orgasm I can't cum instead I pee why?

I'm a femal 23 one baby and during orgasm I can't cum instead I pee why?

Muscle contractions: In some people the involuntary muscle contractions include the lower gu system. This is a normal variant. Try voiding prior to intercourse. ...Read more

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When I reach an orgasm, my penis tenses, stopping cum from coming out, is this bad?

When I reach an orgasm, my penis tenses, stopping cum from coming out, is this bad?

See Urologist: Can cause retrograde ejaculation, which could cause some structural damage / problems for continence, etc. Should get urologic evaluation to identify issue (s) present. ...Read more

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After having an orgasm the cum won't come out of my vagina until the next day. Is that normal?

After having an orgasm the cum won't come out of my vagina until the next day. Is that normal?

Sex issue: Having orgasm and sperm coming out of the vagina the next day have nothing in common. It may be that sperm continues to come out of your vagina gradually but you become more aware of it the day after sex. ...Read more

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While having sex, I go a long time before I have a orgasm. Sometimes I don't have one at all. What can I do to cum quicker?

While having sex, I go a long time before I have a orgasm. Sometimes I don't have one at all. What can I do to cum quicker?

Several possibilitie: This could be related to an anatomical problem or a psychological one.Depression, relationship problems, as well as neuropathy and circulation issues come to mind. Medications and alcohol can also play a role. ...Read more

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When my boyfriend and I have sex, he pulls out and holds in the cum when he has an orgasm. Are there any health risks to doing this?

When my boyfriend and I have sex, he pulls out and holds in the cum when he has an orgasm. Are there any health risks to doing this?

Pregnancy, mostly: Pre-ejaculate is produced from initial sexual arousal, and this contains semen. There is no benefit to attempting to 'hold in' an ejaculation, and it might cause discomfort from stress on urethral wall and sphincters. Condoms are effective, unobtrusive, and allow for 'release.' Good luck. ...Read more

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Are my chances of getting pregnant just as likely if he didn't climax inside me? Could the "pre cum" get me pregnant? How likely is it?

Are my chances of getting pregnant just as likely if he didn't climax inside me? Could the "pre cum" get me pregnant? How likely is it?

See below: Chances of getting pregnant certainly are much greater if ejaculation occurred, especially if around your mid-cycle "fertile window" with ovulation. Also, sometimes men ejaculate semen/sperm without being aware of it. As for "pre-cum", in some men it has been shown to contain viable sperm and, even though in smaller concentrations than in a normal ejaculate, the potential for impregnation exists. ...Read more

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Can a girl still get pregnant if she doesn't orgasm during sex and once a guy cums in you what's that left over stuff coming outta me when I stand up?

Can a girl still get pregnant if she doesn't orgasm during sex and once a guy cums in you what's that left over stuff coming outta me when I stand up?

Pregnancy: It is very possible to conceive without orgasm. The liquid that comes out of you when you stand up after sex, is mostly fluid that carries the sperm. Sperm enter your body very quickly after your partner ejaculates. ...Read more

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Why do I have white/transparent discharge from my penis when I masturbate (with intervals, lasts 2-3hours), this is before orgasm, is this pre cum?

Likely, yes: As you describe, yes, it is the pre-ejaculate that during intercourse would alter vaginal ph and lubricate to prepare / assist semen movement. ...Read more

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Hello. Is there medication or some type of vitamin I can take to increase how many times you cum? My sex drive is huge but takes me forever to climax

Hello. Is there medication or some type of vitamin I can take to increase how many times you cum? My sex drive is huge but takes me forever to climax

No: In this society where everyone expects a pill for every ailment, there is no FDA approved medication for anejaculation. Some have empirically tried Viagr/Cialis or Levitra (vardenafil) with mixed results.
Healthy sexual life style, proper management of diabetes mellitus which is the leading cause of male impotency, and possible sex therapy may improve the problem. ...Read more

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I had unprotected sex on one of my most fertile days during my cyclehe didn't cum in me and I didn't orgasm. Can I still get pregnant? No birthcontrol

That depends: If there was vaginal transmission of pre-ejaculate or ejaculate or pre-ejaculate on the introitus (tissues around vaginal opening) than pregnancy is possible. Please use protection for every act of sex if you aren't ready for pregnancy. ...Read more

Semen (Definition)

Semen is the white, viscous substance that forms the male ejaculate. Semen contains sperm, fructose (nutrition for the sperm), and ...Read more