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What Should You Do If Your Husband Insists On Anal Sex
My husband insists on anal sex at least once a month but I find it very painful. Is it safe and there anyway to make it less painful?
My husband like anal sex but i don't like anal sex it is very pain . Plz suggest me u r opinion anal sex good or bad safe or not safe
My husband and I decided give anal sex a try and now a week later and it still hurts and there is like a constant pressure in there. Will this go away?
YES: When tissue(s) not used to trauma even if mild still REPETITIVE they SWELL and this is a reaction to the trauma (much like a bruise or muscle aches after extreme exercise) swell and HURT. A week is not an unusual amount of time for RECOVERY! If you are still uncomfortable in another week see your Gynecologist for a check-up!~ Hope this helps! Dr Z ...Read more
Daddy's baby: Let's go with the medical answer first. Aside from tears to perineum or other issues, intercourse isn't medically contraindicated. But you just had a baby . . . why don't you rest, have your husband rub your feet, and then after you go to sleep he can go 'entertain' himself until it's time to feed HIS baby. Just an opinion . . . ...Read more
Not a good idea: Anal sex has a tendency to spread pathogenic(disease causing) bacteria all over the perineum which includes the vagina and ultimately the uterus. (home of the fetus.) If you want to engage in anal sex in a non pregnant state great, but don't risk the fetus acquiring a massive intra uterine infection. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I am married and my husband wants to try anal sex. What is the best practice for this. Do we need to use a condom? Anything else to worry about?
ANAL SEX: Tell him to get his partner to use protection. ...Read more
Too much friction: The anus is not intended to have a penis in it. It does not produce any significant amount of lubrication. The dry friction rubbing can cause irritation to the skin on the penis. Further more, if there are any nicks or cuts on the penis, stool from your anus can cause severe irritation/burning of the skin. Have him see his doctor. Next time, use lots of lubrication, go slow and finish quickly. ...Read more
I had anal sex with my husband and am now experiencing severe stabbing and squeezing pain in my stomach that has been going on now for over 45 minutes?
Constipation: First thought at your age is the stimulation of the anus/rectum during intercourse may have triggered a colon reflex to evacuate your bowels. If you have some constipation you may be cramping as your bowel tries to push the stool through. You may also have some abdominal muscle spams if the position was awkward. Hot bath and stretch out - but if worsens seek emergent evaluation. http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexualhealthqanda/f/anal_sex_bad.htm ...Read more
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