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Anus (Definition)

The anus is the opening of the rectum, through which stool and flatus are passed. The anal canal is about an inch in length, and is ...Read more


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Can I do anal sex with my husbsnd?

Can I do anal sex with my husbsnd?

Anal sex: You can do anything you want with your husband provided you both consent to it. However why would want to do anal sex? This is not physiologic or anatomic. These structures were by design not made to be used together. They are designed for different purposes. ...Read more

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My husband like anal sex but I don't like anal sex it is very pain. Plz suggest me u r opinion anal sex good or bad safe or not safe

My husband like anal sex but I don't like anal sex it is very pain. Plz suggest me u r opinion anal sex good or bad safe or not safe

See below: You should only do what you feel totally comfortable doing. You and your husband should have open communication about your sex life, but neither partner should feel pressured to do anything he or she doesn't want to do. ...Read more

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My husband and I decided give anal sex a try and now a week later and it still hurts and there is like a constant pressure in there. Will this go away?

My husband and I decided give anal sex a try and now a week later and it still hurts and there is like a constant pressure in there. Will this go away?

YES: When tissue (s) not used to trauma even if mild still REPETITIVE they SWELL and this is a reaction to the trauma (much like a bruise or muscle aches after extreme exercise) swell and HURT. A week is not an unusual amount of time for RECOVERY! If you are still uncomfortable in another week see your Gynecologist for a check-up! ~
Hope this helps!
Dr Z ...Read more

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I delivered a baby vaginally 4/20, had a D&C. Is it ok to have anal sex with my husband?

I delivered a baby vaginally 4/20, had a D&C. Is it ok to have anal sex with my husband?

Daddy's baby: Let's go with the medical answer first. Aside from tears to perineum or other issues, intercourse isn't medically contraindicated. But you just had a baby. . . why don't you rest, have your husband rub your feet, and then after you go to sleep he can go 'entertain' himself until it's time to feed HIS baby. Just an opinion. . . ...Read more

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I'm 7 months pregnant my husband nd I wanna try anal sex is it safe how do I prepare for it?

I'm 7 months pregnant my husband nd I wanna try anal sex is it safe how do I prepare for it?

Not a good idea: Anal sex has a tendency to spread pathogenic (disease causing) bacteria all over the perineum which includes the vagina and ultimately the uterus. (home of the fetus.) If you want to engage in anal sex in a non pregnant state great, but don't risk the fetus acquiring a massive intra uterine infection. ...Read more

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Why did my husband's penis burn after anal sex?

Why did my husband's penis burn after anal sex?

Too much friction: The anus is not intended to have a penis in it. It does not produce any significant amount of lubrication. The dry friction rubbing can cause irritation to the skin on the penis. Further more, if there are any nicks or cuts on the penis, stool from your anus can cause severe irritation/burning of the skin. Have him see his doctor. Next time, use lots of lubrication, go slow and finish quickly. ...Read more

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Can you safely have anal sex with your husband when both you and him are negative for std's?

Can you safely have anal sex with your husband when both you and him are negative for std's?

Yes or not...: While anal sex has been fantasized and promoted to maximally heighten sex pleasure by many and even so-called sex experts. In reality, that practice is not the nature has designed to use. Considering the structure and environment of anus/rectum, it's clearly not for intercourse. Besides, many men and women with hpv, herpes, and chlamydia have no their related symptoms or signs. So, who knows? ...Read more

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Almost two years ago, I had anal sex/oral sex a few times with my husband who I left. Never had sex before or after. What are my chances of having hiv?

Almost two years ago, I had anal sex/oral sex a few times with my husband who I left. Never had sex before or after. What are my chances of having hiv?

HIV: Unless you have reason to believe or know that your ex-husband had intercourse with someone other than you or you have had sexual contact with more than one person then the likelihood of HIV is nil. A monogamous or single person relationship with a non infected person does not produce hiv. ...Read more

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I had anal sex with my husband and am now experiencing severe stabbing and squeezing pain in my stomach that has been going on now for over 45 minutes?

I had anal sex with my husband and am now experiencing severe stabbing and squeezing pain in my stomach that has been going on now for over 45 minutes?

Constipation: First thought at your age is the stimulation of the anus/rectum during intercourse may have triggered a colon reflex to evacuate your bowels. If you have some constipation you may be cramping as your bowel tries to push the stool through. You may also have some abdominal muscle spams if the position was awkward. Hot bath and stretch out - but if worsens seek emergent evaluation. Http://sexuality. About. Com/od/sexualhealthqanda/f/anal_sex_bad. Htm ...Read more

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I had anal sex with my husband on 8th day of my periods, he ejacuated in my anus twice. Insd of next periods I got only brown discharge. Am I pregnent?

I had anal sex with my husband on 8th day of my periods, he ejacuated in my anus twice. Insd of next periods I got only brown discharge. Am I pregnent?

Maybe but not fromit: If you only had anal sex and ejaculation into your anus on 8th day of your period you will not get pregnant. If healthy viable and mobile sperms were introduced into your cervix then or at other times, the risk of pregnancy would increase. A simple blood pregnancy betaHCG test will answer your question. ...Read more

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Had anal sex with my husband. Not first time. This time he entered quick = pain. Now im bleeding a decent amount from butt + left side abdominal cramps?

Had anal sex with my husband. Not first time. This time he entered quick = pain. Now im bleeding a decent amount from butt + left side abdominal cramps?

Anal sex: You have a rectal laceration, I cannot explain the extent. Constant bleeding, requires attention.
Concomitant abdominal pain would indicate some degree of peritoneal injury.
Unfortunately you should go to the ER. You will have a CT scan or MRI with or without contrast, a proctoscopy, and colonoscopy.
You will have some surgical repair to stop the bleeding ...Read more

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Are there ways to reduce the pain in anal sex? He insists I do it anyway.

Are there ways to reduce the pain in anal sex? He insists I do it anyway.

Tell him stop now!: Anal sex is fine for people that enjoy it. If it is causing you pain, then you could be doing permanent damage which can lead to permanent pain, hemorrhoids, fecal incontinence, anal fissures etc. People who do enjoy it usually use high quality lube such as astroglide or pjur, they go slowly and gently and they stop if it hurts. Please tell him it is not ok to insist when it hurts! ...Read more

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Is anal sex bad?

Anal Sex: Anal sex is a common human sexual experience. There is no bad or good in medicine or science.

Sometimes there is shame. Sometimes there are risks for common stds, just like other forms of sexual intercourse.

Anal sex can take some time to get used to. But, for many humans, straight and gay and bisexual, this is a normal part of their sexual life. ...Read more

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Is anal sex safe?

Is anal sex safe?

Yes and no: The anus is not made for sex, it does not produce any natural lubrication. So if your going to try it, then you need plenty of high quality artificial lube (astroglide or pjur), go slow, be gentle and if it hurts, stop. Also the anus is very susceptible to catching stds, so make sure your partner does not have any. ...Read more