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What is sex addiction? My cougar wants it all the time.

What is sex addiction? My cougar wants it all the time.

See below: Addiction implies persistance of a behavior despite negative consequences, not just "wanting lots of something". Are there bad cosequences to her excessive libido. Have you communicated that you feel the need is excessive. Counseling may be appropriate. ...Read more

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Addiction (Definition)

Addiction is a primary, chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, memory, and related circuitry. Dysfunction in these circuits leads to characteristic biological, psychological, social and spiritual manifestations. This is reflected in an individual pathologically pursuing reward and/or relief by substance use and other behaviors. A person affected by addiction will be unable to consistently Abstain from use, will have Impaired Behavioral control, will have Craving or increased "hunger" for drugs or rewarding experiences, will have a Dysfunctional Emotional response, and will show diminished recognition of significant problems with their own ...Read more


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Its our first time having sex my boyfriend and me, i heard it hurts the first time for the both of us is it true? What can we do to prevent hurting?

Its our first time having  sex my boyfriend and me, i heard it hurts the first time for the both of us is it true? What can we do to prevent hurting?

First time: Don't be in a rush for penetration; search out each other's erogenous zones. Foreplay allows u to become adequately lubricated. Use a position that allows u to control the amount of penetration. As the other doc mentioned, if your hymen causes problems, see gyn for options. Enjoy the experience. ...Read more

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Why is my husband watching porn all the time we have a healthy interment relationship but this upsets me and he says it's not my bussiness ?

Why is my husband watching porn all the time we have a healthy interment relationship but this upsets me and he says it's not my bussiness ?

He may have an: addiction to pornography. All addictions are hard to overcome. He may need some help. There are self help groups like aa for people addicted to sex or pornography. I would suggest that he take advantage of them in addition to psychotherapy to help the tow of you. ...Read more

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What is the best way to heal ocd? I obsess over everything and worry all the time. A doctor on her has been very rude to me about it.

What is the best way to heal ocd? I obsess over everything and worry all the time. A doctor on her has been very rude to me about it.

Expert Help Matters!: It can take years for someone diagnosed w/ ocd 2get appropriate treatment. So 1st get properly assessed. Then a) educate urself about what ocd is/isn't: &; b) what form(s) ocd takes. (try http://bit.Ly/y0lvsh .) cognitive-behavioral therapy (cbt) that specifically includes exposure &response prevention (erp) has proven very effective as have certain medications. For some, erp/cbt + meds indicated. ...Read more

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Is it silly for me to think of my husband looking at porn as a form of cheating on me?

Is it silly for me to think of my husband looking at porn as a form of cheating on me?

"Cheating you" maybe: Or he could be "cheating on you". Either way it doesn't bode well for the marriage. It seems you are not in favor of him doing that, for good reason. Your connection with him is likely to go down hill. It helps impotence in men sometimes. Some people do use porn as a way of helping sexual relations but it is not common and is by mutual consent. Without that consent, cheating is a good word for it. ...Read more

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Lately my hubby's sex drive has been low. Me on the other hand wants to have sex all the time. He is 33 and I am 29.. Is it normal for him at this age?

Lately my hubby's sex drive has been low. Me on the other hand wants to have sex all the time. He is 33 and I am 29.. Is it normal for him at this age?

Not particularly: Everyone's sex drive waxes and wanes. But if his is persistently low, it could be due to medical or emotional issues. There are many medical possibilities, some more likely than others, so a general check-up would be a good first step. If he physically checks out ok, he should consider talking to a mental health professional or counselor. ...Read more

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My female ward is 87 years old. She's always depressed, she just want to sleep almost all the time. What is the best thing we can do for her to move?

My female ward is 87 years old. She's always depressed, she just want to sleep almost all the time. What is the best thing we can do for her to move?

Don't give up: Seek medical & psychiatric review to determine if and what conditions may be contributing and requiring intervention. . Demonstrate an interest in her and listen if she will talk. Try to determine what she likes and what motivates her and gently encourage her to engage in activities as tolerated. ...Read more

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My wife is horney all the time what can I do to keep up with her sex drive?

My wife is horney all the time what can I do to keep up with her sex drive?

Frequency mismatch?: In some ways, many men would be glad to be in your situation. But if you and your wife are having a mismatch in this area, please discuss with your doctor to address possible solutions. Both of you would need evaluation to understand what's actually happening here. ...Read more

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Is it normal for me to be wet all the time on my vaginal area it drives me crazy?

Is it normal for me to be wet all the time on my vaginal area it drives me crazy?

Maybe: Vaginal moisture is typically due to hormone changes in the vagina or excess cervical mucus production. Occasionally there could be an infection causing the problem. Other factors could be involved including being overweight and wearing tight clothing. I would suggest speaking to a physician about this at your next visit to see if something can be done to change it. ...Read more

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Hieee my mom is 50 years old.Most of the time she panic why it could happened to her most of the situations?

Hieee my mom is 50 years old.Most of the time she panic why it could happened to her most of the situations?

It's learned: While it's possible that she has panic disorder, it is also possible that her behavior reflects a personality pattern or habit of responding in an anxious or agitated way. If she has an anxiety disorder she could get treatment for it. Also, with therapy she could learn more effective (and more comfortable) ways of perceiving and responding to situations. Maybe she could talk to a doctor about it. ...Read more

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Hey me and my gilfriend are both planning on having sex for the first time but i heard it can hurt the girl the first time which i really wouldnt want for her. is there any way to get around this ?

Hey me and my gilfriend are both planning on having sex for the first time but i heard it can hurt the girl the first time which i really wouldnt want for her. is there any way to get around this ?

Hmmm....: The pain with first sex idea is overdone. If a woman has a healthy vulva and vagina; if she is very stretchy; if she is happy and relaxed, with lots of natural lubrication; if a guy enters at a good angle, at the right spot; if he moves with small motions until she is well-lubricated and stretched out; there may be little or no hymen tearing nor bleeding. Also, pain is as much mental as physical. ...Read more

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My partner passes out every time she has an orgasm. What's wrong and is it safe for us to continue? We can't visit a doctor, what's wrong?

My partner passes out every time she has an orgasm. What's wrong and is it safe for us to continue? We can't visit a doctor, what's wrong?

Most likely she has: Vasovagal syncope - passing out because of decreased blood flow to the brain from a drop in blood pressure and heart rate due to a triggering stimulus or excitement.It would be for her own benefit if she has the chance to see a dr soon for reassurance. Best wishes! http://www.Mayoclinic.Org/diseases-conditions/vasovagal-syncope/basics/definition/con-20026900. ...Read more

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Why do I have hair on my penis? Is this common? I don't let it affect me, if anything it improves pleasure for women. It goes about half way up.

Why do I have hair on my penis? Is this common? I don't let it affect me, if anything it improves pleasure for women. It goes about half way up.

Normal Anatomy: Have on the shaft of the penis is rare, but not abnormal if present. Sometimes a circumcision at birth that removes too much normal penile shaft skin is then corrected by tthe body with a oulling down of skin form the pubic area. If this happens, when one goes through puberty the "penis skin" grows hair like the area in the pubic region. ...Read more

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Sex Addiction (Definition)

Sexual urges, behaviors or thoughts that appear extreme in frequency or feel out of one's control. There's a pattern of recurrent failure to resist impulses to engage in acts of sex, persistent desire or unsuccessful effort to stop or control those behaviors, & continuation of the behavior despite knowledge of having social, academic, financial, psychological or physical problems ...Read more