Sore after losing virginity - Doctor answers

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Will losing virginity make me sore?

Will losing virginity make me sore?

Hopefully not: Losing your virginity will hopefully be a pleasant experience for you. Let your partner know, you are a virgin and hopefully through a respectful sexual interaction, with love, respect, and caring, the first sexual experience will be done in a pleasant and enjoyable manner, not to cause you any discomfort. The appropriate vaginal secretions/lubrication will help as well. ...Read more

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Is it normal for your vagina to still smell different 5 days after losing your virginity as well as still being sore?

Yes: It is definitely ok for your vagina to still be sore. As far as the odor is concerned, did u have unprotected sex? If yes, the odor might be different than what you are used to. ...Read more

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I lost my virginity today. I bled a couple hours later and experiencing some soreness now? What other symptoms will I experience?

I lost my virginity today. I bled a couple hours later and experiencing some soreness now? What other symptoms will I experience?

It'll get better.: Assuming the sexual activity you describe was wanted and that you were not harmed (as in rape), a little bleeding and soreness is probably within the range of normal. If these symptoms don't get better automatically, check with your doctor. I wouldn't expect you would have other symptoms - and it will get better. After all, most people seem to keep having sex! Good luck. LGromkoMD ...Read more

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Hadn't had sex with bf for 1 month until yesterday and it was painful and sore for me, tried again today, still painful, lost virginity 4 months ago?

Hadn't had sex with bf for 1 month until yesterday and it was painful and sore for me, tried again today, still painful, lost virginity 4 months ago?

Painful sex: By any chance have you tried different positions? Another issue may be the amount or lack of foreplay - to allow your body to produce vaginal secretions allowing penetration. Were you relaxed this time? All of this will change how your body reacts to a sexual stimulus. Girl on top allows you to control penetration. I would try some lube and make sure you have plenty of foreplay first. ...Read more

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Why does sex still hurt me? I lost my virginity 3 weeks ago and I had sex 4 times now but I still feel sore afterwards and I'm not enjoying it.

Well, 1 possibility: Is inadequate foreplay leading to insufficient vaginal lubrication. No lubrication = friction = pain. Another possibility would be that the male's penis is overly large. Tightening of the vagina with attempts at penetration is also possible. I suggest starting with increasing quantity and quality of foreplay. Lubricants can also be used. If this is not helpful, consider seeing your gynecologist. ...Read more

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I just lost my virginity today and he came inside me and now I keep feeling all cold and have a sore belly what does it mean?

I just lost my virginity today and he came inside me and now I keep feeling all cold and have a sore belly what does it mean?

Probably nothing: BUT having unprotected sex is not the greatest idea in the world! You need to consult with a GYNECOLOGIST or a PRIMARY CARE PROVIDER ASAP. (Probably too late for Plan B or another "morning after" pill! Get on track!!!!! ASAP
Hope this helps!
Dr Z ...Read more

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Lost virginity on friday. (had protected sex and condom didn't break). My nipples have been noticeably sore ever since. Why could this be?

Lost virginity on friday. (had protected sex and condom didn't break). My nipples have been noticeably sore ever since. Why could this be?

Nipples sore: There is a good chance your partner was rougher on your nipples than you realized. During the heat of passion its impossible to remember every small detail. ...Read more

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I had sex 4 1/2 weeks after a total hysterectomy. No pain but it feels sore, like when I lost my virginity. Is there a cause for concern?

Pain after surgery: Important thing is to take things slowly. Speak with your surgeon who performed your hysterectomy. Have you been in for your post op followup appointment? If you start actively bleeding or if you develop severe pain seek medical attention. ...Read more

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I recently lost my virginity and since I've been feeling emotional and stressed. I feel fat and I'm sore as well. I'm also pretty worried since we did it twice once with a condom and again without it the second time we did it without the condom he pulled o

I recently lost my virginity and since I've been feeling emotional and stressed. I feel fat and I'm sore as well. I'm also pretty worried since we did it twice once with a condom and again without it the second time we did it without the condom he pulled o

Need more info: How long ago did you have sex? If the sex was more than three weeks ago and you missed your period, do a home pregnancy test. If the sex was only a few days ago, it would be too soon to test. If the soreness persists beyond a couple of days, you may need to be examined for herpes. It is not not feasible to address your emotional issues in this forum and you should seek counseling. If you do not wish to be pregnant, use contraception all the time, every time. You may consider implanted contraceptive.
Practice safe sex.
Get HPV vaccine. ...Read more

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I just lost my virginity yesterday, I bleed a lot and now really sore in my lower stomach, is that normal? When will it stop?

I just lost my virginity yesterday, I bleed a lot and now really sore in my lower stomach, is that normal? When will it stop?

Bleeding: Mild degrees of vaginal bleeding are common but profuse or continued vaginal bleeding indicates substantial trauma of the genital area during your first intercourse. If bleeding and/or pelvic discomfort persist, consult a gynecologist. ...Read more

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I lost my virginity yesterday and today I have to pee alot and my boobs are sore and my right overy hurts. Am I pregant?

I lost my virginity yesterday and today I have to pee alot and my boobs are sore and my right overy hurts. Am I pregant?

It depends: It depends on if you were using birth control (BC) and or Protection (condoms). But I would like to stress that if this was not the case then please use BC such as BC pills and condom use for protection against sexually transmitted diseases next time. If you were not protected you could also take Plan B which is emergency contraception that is available without a prescription at your pharmacy. ...Read more

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I'm 18 and I lost my virginity about two weeks ago. My left breast has been sore for a while and it has grown a bit. Is this normal?

I'm 18 and I lost my virginity about two weeks ago. My left breast has been sore for a while and it has grown a bit. Is this normal?

Maybe: Please remember the safe sex procedures you probably learned in high school...or contact Planned Parenthood for help with this.
At your age changes in breast size with some soreness could be quite normal, but I'd suggest scheduling with a family practitioner or NP/ PA experienced in teen sexuality. ...Read more

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Lost my virginity on july 1 a day aftr my cycle went off. We used a condom. He said it didn't break. My period isn't late. Its due soon. Sore boobs?

Lost my virginity on july 1 a day aftr my cycle went off. We used a condom. He said it didn't break. My period isn't late. Its due soon. Sore boobs?

Most likely all OK: If you have protected inter course right after period finished - most likely you didn't reach ovulation yet and so pregnancy is very unlikely. Sore breast may occur in mid cycle or week before period as normal part of hormonal changes. If any doubt - check pregnancy test by now. See your doc to discuss contraception! you are very young to take risk! Always use conform! ...Read more

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Just lost my virginity a day after my cycle went off. We used protection. My period is due soon. Sore boobs and loose stool nd cramps. Cycle or preg?

Just lost my virginity a day after my cycle went off. We used protection. My period is due soon. Sore boobs and loose stool nd cramps. Cycle or preg?

Impossible: It is impossible to be pregnant without exposure to semen when you are ovulating. You cannot get pregnant if there is no semen and you are not ovulating. This is pretty basic information that I would encourage you to review. All females do better if they understand their bodies and their cycles and especially now to avoid unwanted pregnancy. If it is impossible to be pregnant it is impossible. ...Read more