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How much does the penis grow during sex?

How much does the penis grow during sex?

It swells, not grows: A flacid penis can double or triple in size when it become erect, but that is not the same as growing. The penis will shrink back to its normal size when the erection stops. Small flacid penises tend to swell more as a percentage of baseline size than larger flacid penises. ...Read more

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Couples often worry about having sex during pregnancy. They may be afraid that having sex could cause a miscarriage or harm the baby. It is best to talk to your doctor or nurse midwife about your specific situation to make sure you are considered at low risk for complications such a ...Read more


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What causes a penis to go soft during sex?

What causes a penis to go soft during sex?

Erectile dysfunction: Best to discuss with a urologist. Causes include physical, psychological or any comination. Physical can include :arteriosclerosis, heart disease, obesity, diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, low testosterone, prolonged pressure from bicycle saddle, some prescription medications, smoking too much, alcoholism etc. Psychological include stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems. ...Read more

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What causes flaccidity in penis during sex?

What causes flaccidity in penis during sex?

Tough question: There are several things that could probably cause this. This could be a sign of low blood flow to the penis or more likely is related to a psychological cause. For example, if you just are not stimulated by the appearance of your partner or if there are some deep unresolved issues these can surface during sex and effect your erection. Is this the first/only time? See a urologist. ...Read more

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I feel pain in the tip of my penis during sex?

I feel pain in the tip of my penis during sex?

IUD?: Is your partner using an iud for contraception? That is the most likely cause of pain at the tip of the penis with maximal penetration. If that's the case, have her see her gyn and ask that the "string" be shortened. It's not supposed to hurt, right? Good luck. ...Read more

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My penis does not stay hard for long during sex?

My penis does not stay hard for long during sex?

Few options..: Safest and easiest/simplest to help is getting an evaluation by your doc to see if you have underlying problem--such as vascular insufficiency/diabetes/thyroid/blood pressure/testosterone trouble etc. Once these are controlled/treated, medications such as cialis/levitra/viagra can help to improve and maintain erections. It is nothing like when u were 17, but these meds do help. Goodl luck
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What I do if my penis won't stay hard during sex?

What I do if my penis won't stay hard during sex?

Relax: You're too young to be having erectile dysfunction. Stay away from tobacco and alcohol. Check w/your doctor if you're on any medication such as for blood pressure. Then relax and practice. It'll probably get better by itself if you don't obsess about it. ...Read more

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Does sensation in penis during sex vary from person to person?

Does sensation in penis during sex vary from person to person?

YES: And depends on partner, lubrication, foreplay, position, mental health and multiple other factors. ...Read more

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Penis gets hard but during sex it starts getting soft, what could be wrong?

Penis gets hard but during sex it starts getting soft, what could be wrong?

Early Detumescence: This is the classic presentation of erectile dysfunction. What you describe, early loss of erection with difficulty or inability to penetrate and maintain penetration, suggests an issue with blood flow or nerve function. If this is a new problem, it's best you be evaluated for medical causes for these symptoms. If there is curvature, peyronies disease, another cause for ed, may be present. ...Read more

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My girlfriend says she don't feel anything during sex cause my penis to small? True?

My girlfriend says she don't feel anything during sex cause my penis to small? True?

Female Anatomy: Nope. But, many guys are not taught that penetration alone will, in most cases, not cause the clitoris to be manipulated. Men and women have to work on that with intercourse. Using your fingers or your lips and tongue may help her get to orgasm with you. Learn what turns her on. Learn where she likes to be touched. Learn the pressure she needs to feel you deep inside her. ...Read more

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During sex, my penis bleeds and secondly there is white dry creamish formation on the penis.?

Fungal vs std: You need to see your dr / urgent care dr / std clinic or urologist for exam and treatment. May be a fungal infection, but could be std as well. Get checked. ...Read more

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My penis is curvedown. Is there any problem during sex? If yes then how can I straighten my penis?

My penis is curvedown. Is there any problem during sex? If yes then how can I straighten my penis?

No so no need: As long as your penis is erect, there's really no issue as to which way it curves as long as curvature is painless. Peyronie's disease can be thought of as painful curvature. Regardless, we have no good way to straighten out your penis. Again, as long as it's painfree, there's no problem during sex. Of course, you should always wear a condom to reduce risk of sexually transmitted disease/infection. ...Read more

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I have a problem with my penis during sex it keeps going soft an my gf thinks its her an its not?

I have a problem with my penis during sex it keeps going soft an my gf thinks its her an its not?

Erectile Dysfunction: I understand your concern about maintenance of erection problem.
Please do not put pressure on yourself to perform sexually, Work on
Emotional Intimacy
Physical intimacy, and
Sexual intimacy
Emotional intimacy will lead to Physical intimacy and
Sexual intimacy which will bring excitement, happiness and fulfillment
For both of you.
Please see a Therapist for Joint Counseling ...Read more

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During sex I feel him entering me and I feel pain but once he's isnide I dint feel anything. Wat is wrong? I don't think it's the size of penis

During sex I feel him entering me and I feel pain but once he's isnide I dint feel anything. Wat is wrong? I don't think it's the size of penis

See an OB/GYN: Without examining you and obtaining a detailed history it is impossible to pinpoint what is going on. Have you had different experiences with other sexual partners? Get looked at. ...Read more

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I keep negatively thinking and concentrating of where the sensation of my penis is during sex instead of enjoying sex, why and how do I stop?

I keep negatively thinking and concentrating of where the sensation of my penis is during sex instead of enjoying sex, why and how do I stop?

RelationshipIntimacy: I commend you for recognizing “negatively thinking”
Speak out loud that you are depriving yourself of passionate experience. Repeat!
Have Heart to Heart Talk with your partner about each other’s sexual desires, feelings, excitements, needs and expectations to improve
Emotional Intimacy
Physical Intimacy
Sexual Intimacy
Enjoy All Intimacies with passion and feel deep bond and Fulfillment. ...Read more

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Hello, I am 22 years old guy, during sex after some time penis gets softer, I don't know why, happened twice. I am in China so I can't communicate wit?

Hello, I am 22 years old guy, during sex after some time penis gets softer, I don't know why, happened twice. I am in China so I can't communicate wit?

Normal: After men ejaculate it is normal for their penis to become softer for awhile and then your partner, through a number of techniques, both physical and psychological, can get you going for another "go at it." Relax! You are only 22 and China's population is over 1.3 billion now! Enjoy, it's not a competition! You should be trying to give pleasure to each other, not wear each other out! ...Read more

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Why my penis loses erection during sex?

Why my penis loses erection during sex?

Exertion Impotence: Sex involves exercise and exercise causes release of a hormone, adrenaline, that is actually used in emergency rooms to stop prolonged erections (priapism). So, you might try working out so sex is not so much of an effort. An exercise routine to strengthen your "sex muscles" is shown here:http://www. Youtube. Com/watch? V=al65x5mt4ge&feature=youtube_gdata_player. ...Read more

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What happens if we use lignocaine jelly over penis during sex?

What happens if we use lignocaine jelly over penis during sex?

Decrease sensitivity: It will decrease sensation on the glans and can delay ejaculation. This treatment is commonly used for men with premature ejaculation. ...Read more

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What causes a 29 years man to bleed through his penis during sex?

What causes a 29 years man to bleed through his penis during sex?

Hematospermia: Trauma, infection or cancer. Blood from a penis is never normal and should be evaluated urgently. ...Read more

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What to do if I've torn the inside of my penis during sex and it's bleeding?

What to do if I've torn the inside of my penis during sex and it's bleeding?

If you are unable: To stop bleeding by applying pressure than please seek medical evaluation. ...Read more

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Do some men have a wider diameter penis so that pain during sex is unavoidable?

Some are wider, but: Just because a many has a wider diameter penis does not mean they will always cause pain during sex. With enough foreplay and lubrication most vaginas can handle most penis sizes. Inadequate foreplay, being too rough, lack of lubrication and general poor technique are much more likely the cause of pain with sex than the size of the penis. ...Read more

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Husbands penis hurts during sex and trouble ejaculating what is the cause of this?

Husbands penis hurts during sex and trouble ejaculating what is the cause of this?

Many: Many causes- infection in either of you, dry vagina, tension, martial discord, . may ues water used lubricants. ...Read more

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Why is more pleasurable sensation felt more in penis head during sex or when just being erect compared to the shaft?

Why is more pleasurable sensation felt more in penis head during sex or when just being erect compared to the shaft?

Sensations in: Head of penis more intense than in the shaft. There are many more nerves in the glans (head) of the penis than in the shaft, thus more sensation. Peace and good health. ...Read more

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My penis is not stand properly during sex and other wise its stand properly when I see porn movies what can I do for this problem?

My penis is not stand properly during sex and other wise its stand properly when I see porn movies what can I do for this problem?

Simple...: Porn sex.....that will help. It is a psycho-physical function. May be your sex life is getting stale....lacks thrill.....both partner can put little attention to it. ...Read more

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I am 33 yr old right from childhood my penis is bent and 45 deg curvature is there. Slight inconvenient during sex. How to straighten it?

Do nothing or...: Clinically, you got a congenital 45-degree penile curvature. But I'm proud of and admired you for coping it well in life. Although surgical correction can be well done by an experienced surgeon, it is not a guaranty. Since you have adapted so well in life, do nothing surgical but trying self tolerable self penile bending/molding for straightening it but it would take time and patience but still.. ...Read more

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Bent my penis during sex months ago. Erection hasn't been as hard since and sometimes find it difficult 2 stay erect. I'm only 24, help?

See a doctor: There really isn't anything that you can "bend" in your penis. You can have fractures of the soft tissues of the erectile portion of the penis (corpus cavernous), but this would cause severe pain requiring immediate evaluation.
If you're concerned about possibly damaging your penis, you need to be evaluated by a physician. ...Read more

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Where is the most sensation in the penis after the front and head, Is it the shaft top and bottom of it after the head during sex.?

Where is the most sensation in the penis after the front and head, Is it the shaft top and bottom of it after the head during sex.?

I believe it is: Head, then glans, then triangle near testicles. But you need to talk to a sexologist to get more details. Thanks for trusting in HealthTap. ...Read more

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If lost some sensitivity in my penis during sex. I'm wondering if it's the weight gainer I'm taking or something in my diet affecting me.

If lost some sensitivity in my penis during sex. I'm wondering if it's the weight gainer I'm taking or something in my diet affecting me.

Loss of sensitivity: In any part of the body needs to be examined by a doc. Your family doc may refer you to a urologist. If no medical cause is found you can consult a licensed sex therapist or other mental health professional. I suggest not taking the weight gainer if it is over the counter and see a nutritionist. Peace and good health. ...Read more

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After ejaculation once during sex I am unable to do it again properly in a bed as penis dosent become that hard. My age is 29. Kindly suggest.

After ejaculation once during sex I am unable to do it again properly in a bed as penis dosent become that hard. My age is 29. Kindly suggest.

It's not frequency: The number of times you get an erection during sex is not as important as the quality of your lovemaking and whether your partner has been satisfied. If you suffer from premature ejaculation--that is, ejaculating too early with very little stimulation and no chance to satisfy your partner--than that is the problem to work on, not the frequency. Control comes with time and practice. ...Read more

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A few years ago during sex I felt a snap under penis near tip and after I noticed I no longer could control or feel sensation in penis head...?

A few years ago during sex I felt a snap under penis near tip and after I noticed I no longer could control or feel sensation in penis head...?

See your urologist: Feeling a snap in the penis during sexual activity strongly suggests that you have had a fracture of the erectile tissue. It is possible that some of the nerves to the head of the penis were damaged in the process or from the resultant inflammation during the healing process. ...Read more

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I recently had an IUD put in, and since then my boyfriend says that during sex he feels like something keeps poking his penis, like a pin. Why?

I recently had an IUD put in, and since then my boyfriend says that during sex he feels like something keeps poking his penis, like a pin. Why?

Contact with IUD: The IUD is a physical device which has size and shape. His penis is likely contacting that device, and can be felt. This might cause it to dislodge and then fail to prevent pregnancy. You may need to explore different positions that limit his penetration, or a different birth control method. ...Read more

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So during sex with my partner. I noticed my discharge looked different. Whenever he pulled out he had my discharge on his penis but it was chunky?

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So during sex with my partner. I noticed my discharge looked different. Whenever he pulled out he had my discharge on his penis but it was chunky?

Here are some. ..: ". chuncky..." may be or not be significant and merely results from interaction between your vaginal discharge and his semen as long as being comfortable and having no unusual vaginal discharge. Of course, if in doubt, have yourself checked by gyn-doc to make sure of no yeast infection or others. ...Read more

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Do the nerves in a penis during sex, give a man different feelings each time E.g -it felt more sensation past the head and middle of shaft today?

Random: What you experienced today is something most likely random and nothing of significance. You may have been experiencing something more emotional and healthy that time that gave you more sensual feeling. ...Read more

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When I get an erection, my penis bends slightly downward. During sex, some positions hurt cause it causes it to straighten. What should I do? Normal?

When I get an erection, my penis bends slightly downward. During sex, some positions hurt cause it causes it to straighten. What should I do? Normal?

Peyronie's disease: Significant deformity of the erect penis is most often due to peyronie's disease. Would recommend you see a urologist for exam and treatment options. ...Read more

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My boyfriend's penis slipped out during sex now he is in constant pain on his middle left side, what is the damage and how can we make the pain stop?

Not related to slip: The pain on middle left side can not be related to his penis slipping out the vagina during sex.If the pain is persistant he should consult his doctor. ...Read more

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During sex my penis is extra sensitive when my girlfriend is on top and is in squat position. Why is this? I typically don't even like that position

During sex my penis is extra sensitive when my girlfriend is on top and is in squat position. Why is this? I typically don't even like that position

Need more info: In that position, female on top, as she lowers herself she may be abutting her uterus with your penis and that may be uncomfortable for you. Ask her to glide slowly as your penis enters her vagina and see if things change for you. Ask her also to change the angle of her body as she allows the penis to enter. ...Read more