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Sexual Attractec To Young Boys
Shame: In our society at least, it's inconceivable in mainstream thinking that the male can be the victim; it always has to be the female. It's bad enough when a female is sexually assaulted, God knows, but, in my opinion, it's almost worse when the male is the victim. My colleagues may disagree with me on this, and I hope all those with diffeering opinions chime in here. It's an incredibly important. ...Read more
To me, your issue is one of perspective. You describe a sex drive that "looks like a dirty old man." My question is: To whom does it look that way? To you? To your wife or girlfriend? To your children or other family members? To the community?
It's important to keep in mind that one person's "dirty old man" is another's vibrant senior with a healthy sexually. Which one are you? And to whom? ...Read more
Nothing: Since you don't know........ignorance is bliss.Get a more detailed answer ›
Why do people who are sexually abused when they are younger tend to be abusers when they get older?
Learned: Some feel that it is the way they have learned to cope. ...Read more
My friend told me that masturbating at a young age can affect you sexual activity in the future, is it true?
No such thing: For a young person, masturbation can be a great idea. It familiarizes a young woman with her body and how her sex organs work, what pleases her, etc. In this way, she can communicate what pleases her and what doesn't to her partners. Communication and honesty are two of the most important aspects of having a healthy sex life. ...Read more
How is it possible that heterosexual males have more sexual partners than females--start younger, do it more, or hang in older?
Not possible: This is hilarious. It's not possible. Either men are lying and saying they have more partners or women are lying and saying they have fewer partners. This article explores the discrepancy: http://www. Nytimes. Com/2007/08/12/weekinreview/12kolata. Html. One explanation is that maybe some of the mens partners are imaginary. ...Read more
Why isn't my 65 year oldbhusband sexually. Active with me? I'm 5 years younger, he's home all the time, very good to me, he's very healthy to
Libido: The best thing to do is communicate and work towards a common goal sexually. He may be experiencing some e.D. Issues. ...Read more
Information: Learn more about and understand human sexuality. Information on female sexuality is available in books and on the internet from reputable sources. Get to know your body well and what brings you pleasure. If this seems overwhelming to you, a therapist that specializes in sexuality can be very helpful. If you have a history of sexual trauma, find a therapist to work with. ...Read more
Yes it is extremely: Helpful and important to help reduce the negative impact of sexual abuse on a child. Much of the therapy is carried out using play with toys, dolls and puppets to help the child express their feelings of anger, guilt and shame associated with the abuse. Find a licensed child psychologist with expertise in trauma work. ...Read more
What are mental illnesses caused by physical and sexual parental abuse as a young child? Any signs to watch for
Not likely!: Most low blood pressure readings are asymptomatic. Drs and nurses sometimes are suprised a a low but healthy reading and will voice that to the patient, who may become concerned. I have never heard of "hypotension" as a cause, per se. Many electrolyte problems can do this. Are you on a diuretic? Other drugs treating BP issues can cause sexual dysfunction. ...Read more
I have wife and 2 kids (10 yrs Faithful). Not sexually active now, but was in younger years. If I had blood tests done, what results would you expect?
Why boys like big boobs and everything big in girls?? are breasts only feeding organs or involved in sexual stimulation? Why men fall for huge boobs?
Not ALL men do: Cultural influences dictate what's considered attractive to many people. But there are always a few who seem able to resist and I'm happy for that! I do understand that it might feel bad to go against the mainstream trends, but try to realize it's perfectly okay to differ. And - yes, boobs do play a role in stimulation for some women - but it's nothing to do w/ size, just nerve endings. ...Read more
If an woman married a man 14 years younger will there be a biological problem reg sex drive later to her n hw long cn both te gendrs b sexually active?
For now, fine: Things might be fine for now, but the woman will age sooner than the man. They can certainly enjoy sex as long as both want to, as dr. Chand says. Other kinds of incompatibilities could still develop, though. Think demi moore and ashton kutcher, maybe. Not all have to go that route, but it happens. Be well. ...Read more
I am 21male. I have a problem I am thinking about sex & sexual fantasy during free time, when sleeping in bed or when looked at a young maid, prostitute!?
This is healthy: Hopefully, you've been horny like this since you hit puberty. You can keep things under control by masturbating like every other guy does -- hopefully you've already discovered this. It's healthy and all the claims the claims that it's bad for you or is unspiritual are just bunk to frighten you. Maybe you'll find a special person to love -- but even then, you'll still look. Embrace being a man. ...Read more
Same as girls: Men and women carry the same types of hpv. Hpv-6 and hpv-11 are the most common low risk types (low risk = risk of warts but low risk of cancer). Hpv-16 and hpv-18 are the most common high risk types (higher risk of cancer). It is recommended that boys get the hpv vaccine as well now. ...Read more
If I'm 19 years old and sexually active can I go to a gynecologist and get a papsmere? I've been told I'm too young, why?
Can trauma to the testicles when young affect your sexual development? I got a bad kick in the groin when I was 12 and I've got a very small package.
Possible but: Unlikely, testicular atrophy is possible with unrecognized, untreated testicular trauma, but need evaluation see your physician, if needed will refer you to a specialist ...Read more
Could he be suffering from ptsd? My husband was sexually molested as a young child, once by an older man and then by teenagers. At the time, he was also being physically abused at home, so he had no one to turn to for help. He recently began dealing with
Eval: I don't think that the full hx is showing on my screen. Although it is clear he has been involved in traumatic events from the info available, it wasn't clear if it was impacting him. Ptsd is characterize by reliving through dreams, memories & thoughts, avoidance of triggers & anything that reminds of the events as well as autonomic hyperarousal to include physiologic rxns. Best to be evaluate. ...Read more
Green vaginal discharge (Never had sexual intercourse, still very young, masturbated before). Why am I experiencing this?
Infection: It usually means infection--see a doctorGet a more detailed answer ›
If a 7 alomst 8 year old boy touches a 4 almost 5 year old boys penis is it sexual abuse or normal kid stuff? Is the 7 old enough to know better?
I call abusive: Such interaction between age equivalent kids is "exploration" & I can accept as much as 2 years age difference into that idea. Beyond that and specifically for the 7-8 yo who is old enough to know right from wrong on these issues it is abuse & often reveals a past abuse of the older kid. Size & intimidation is also an issue when the 60 lb 7-8 yo is doing this with a 40+lb 4-5 yo. ...Read more
I am 19 year old girl and slipped my last month period. I don't have any sexual relation with boys just I read a sex story near my period time.?
Normal: Irregular and missed periods are normal at your age ...Read more