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Sexual Attractec To Young Boys
It's of concern: I guess i would say that "normal" and "healthy" are two separate things. It may not be a particularly healthy thing for a person to have fantasies involving incest. It seems as though you already have a concern or else you wouldn't be asking about this. I wonder if you could have been sexually molested as a child by a relative? There are therapists with special expertise in this area. Good luck. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Are sexually suppressed children more prone to develop abnormal sexual behavior (sex addiction, asexual etc)?
Maybe: It depends on what you mean by sexually suppressed. If you mean children raised in conservative homes that discourage early sexual experiences but don't teach that sex is bad, probably not. If you mean children raised in homes that have negative or punitive views of sex, probably yes. ...Read more
How is it possible that heterosexual males have more sexual partners than females--start younger, do it more, or hang in older?
Not possible: This is hilarious. It's not possible. Either men are lying and saying they have more partners or women are lying and saying they have fewer partners. This article explores the discrepancy: http://www.Nytimes.Com/2007/08/12/weekinreview/12kolata.Html. One explanation is that maybe some of the mens partners are imaginary. ...Read more
How to change sexual orientation if attracted to older men but just superficial relationship and at the same time admiring girls ??
Not sure that I: understand, exactly; but there's no evidence that one can change one's orientation, or that there's an illness associated at all with being attracted to either gender, or both. If you have anxieties about who you're attracted to, you can seek counseling to cope with those feelings of discomfort, yet there's nothing wrong with who one is attracted to, however. I hope that helps. ...Read more
Several reasons: When a sub-culture accepts that men should be more powerful than and control women, harming them to maintain control becomes acceptable. If violence was witnessed as a child, a man may believe it is ok. Some men believe that it is part of "being a man." if a man was traumatized by violence as a child, he may not have skills to manage anger or his own behavior. He could be mentally ill. ...Read more
Turn on or off: Watching porn could increase or decrease your desire depending on your attitudes and reaction. It could be a turn on or a turn off. You could experiment and find out. ...Read more
Explain human attraction between man and woman who are opposites. Why women who are good by nature are attracted to guys who have bad behavior?
Excitation: I find that 'opposites attract' in relationships because the opposite to you is exciting and different. However, long-term relationships generally work best between people who share similarities especially in core values, world view, plans for the future. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers
More Importantly...: Most surveys suggest that the practice of masturbation is quite common, especially (not surprisingly) amongst men. There are stress relieving benefits to orgasm, and some studies have shown improved sleep. There are no scientific concerns regarding ill effects from it; you must consider your own beliefs first. ...Read more
Are they really?: "the devil's in the details." boys are more likely to be born prematurely, and they are more likely to be small for gestational age. All other things being equal, there does appear to be a small gender gap. Research continues, yet we still don't really know why. I would submit that ours is to pray for healthy, full-term babies, and to appreciate what g-d sends us, however small, boy or girl. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers
We don't know: Boys are more vulnerable than girls to many childhood mental disorders including ld, adhd, autism, speech and language delays, tourette disorder. Some have hypothesized it has to do with exposure to testoserone in the womb, but the why of that remains unclear, even if true. Equally mysterious is why girls tend to "catch up" in the teen years, though with different disorders. ...Read more
Attention: Men spend time and give a lot of attention to their female friends. Time-listening. ...Read more
Can a lesbian be married and satisfy a male..She has never had sex to a man..But attracted to male friends..Is she bisexual?
Complex Issue: Dear owl, if only life were so simple. The lesbian woman in question will need to explore this. There is simply no way for someone who doesn't know her or the situation to provide an accurate answer to this question. If this is proving a dilemma for her, counseling to sort it out might be helpful. Take care. ...Read more