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Sex With Stranger
A call for therapy: Hopefully, this situation has not gone far for a good Marital Therapist to guide you both toward a way to answer this ring-tone. (sorry for the puns). But before things get worse between you, consider couple's sessions and possibly sex-therapy. I may be hard not to be hurt and angry, but if you can, it will help. If things are already too bad - you still can benefit from individual counseling. ...Read more
Likely-limited ok: Getting married without having this discussion suggests possible limits to trust & intimacy. Before sexual intimacy, sharing previous sexually transmitted disease history and current std status (with a recent medical eval) is critical. I suggest couples est. Ground rules about what they need/want to know before sharing. Limits to what is shared is okay, even helpful, as long both healthy & agree. ...Read more
Had unsafe oral sex with guy whose ONLY sexual encounter was unsafe vag sex with woman who tested negative after 5 months of exposure. Can i have HIV?
Unsafe sex: While it's unlikely you contracted HIV after this episode of unsafe sex, you can not rely on third hand information of sexual history. The only history you can rely on is your own. To protect against HIV infection, practice safe sex every time unless you are in a mutually monogamous relationship in which both partners have tested negative for HIV over six months or longer. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
NO: Please, that would be totally unprofessional and a therapist could lose their license if that were the case. It is not group sex but therapy and answering questions, learning to set the stage and to relax and enjoy the relationship. For many this is not so easy due to life's experiences. ...Read more
How risky is having sexual intercourse with someone whose ex-partner was diagnosed with HPV cervical cancer?
We don't know.: What you do know is that this new sexual partner has likely been exposed to hpv strains that are the high risk type. However, it is unlikely that you or anyone else for that matter will go through life having never been exposed to hpv. Hpv is extremely common and hpv vaccine, getting regular pap smears and follow up/treatment is the only way to truly prevent cervical cancer. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
You're probably okay: If she has a congenital HIV infection and is well enough to have been with you, she's being treated and probably won't infect you. Get tested for HIV when your physician recommends -- it's wise for anyone to do. But i hope instead that you'll cherish the experience and in the future, use barrier protection until you're with that one special person you'll love for a lifetime. ...Read more
Boy and girl with no sexual activity but with eachother give eachother oral sex, what's the risk from swallowing?
Possible but unlikel: Gonorrhea is a sexually transmitted disease. It is not limited to the sex organs. There is oropharyngeal gonnorrhea. If one were perhaps bisexual and had performed oral sex and contracted gonnorrhea in the mouth and throat, then you had sex with this person, you could contract gonnorrhea. Unlikely in what i believe you are asking but possible. Be knowledgeable and be careful. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
3/16/14unprotected sex with 1guy. 3/20 sex with other man unprotected. 3/17took levonogestrel. Previous menstuation 1/31 & 3/4/14..Who fatheredmychild?
Girlfriend cant feel any pleasure during sexual intercourse, she never has had with anyone. Her cliterous is VERY sensitive. No sex drive either?
Relationship Turmoil: I understand your unhappiness about lack of sexual intimacy with your Girlfriend. It is likely that her symptoms are due to traumatic experiences causing intense hurt, sadness, anxiety, fear and resentment leading to Depression. Have Heart to Heart talk with her about need for Emotional, Physical and Sexual Intimacy; and to see a Therapist for Individual Therapy and Relationship Therapy. ...Read more
High sex drive lesbian, in a 6yr relationship, patient but has been depresed&frusterated, no sex life even after talking wit partner, are feelings normal?
Not recommended: Transmission of herpes simplex virus (hsv) can occur quickly in new sexual relationships. Although transmission from a source female to a susceptible male is lower than vice versa, the likelihood of becoming infected increases with more sexual encounters, especially during unprotected sex. Transmission can occur even if the source has no lesions or symptoms. ...Read more
6/18 I had sex with a guy with a condom 7/5 I had sex with a guy w/o a condom there was oral sex involved Who most likely spread the herpes infection?
Cant tell: you wouldnt be able to tell who you got it from without knowing if the first guy has it or not. if the first guy has herpes then it was likely him. if the first guy doesnt have it then it was most likely the second guy. The thing to take into consideration is if either of them didnt tell you before having sex with you, do you think they will be honest afterwards? condom or not it can still happen ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Anxiety about sex: pregnancy worries. How do I have sex with my bf without worrying about pregnancy? My interest in having sex with him is decreasing.
I had unprotected sex with a virgin girl who had unprotected oral sex with 3 guys before and I'm worried about STDs. Do I need to do a STD test?
Yes: From your statement it is obvious you know she had prior sexual contacts & realize you might be infected if she acquired a STI. Many STI's have few if any symptoms in either sex, so screening is important if you are sexually active with a variety f contacts. Screening through blood & urine samples is helpful in the absence of symptoms. ...Read more
HIV is hard to get: Okay. Most people with HIV are living full lives and that does include being sexual. Did you wear a condom? Is she on effective HIV medications making her less contagious? If you did not wear a condom did you go to your doctor within 72 hours to get on the treatment to prevent HIV infection? ...Read more