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Sex While Sleeping
See a Doctor: I would start by seeing a doctor to discuss the couple of problems that you are experiencing since they might be inter-related or separate entities. ...Read more
Can a girl have sex with me while I am in sleep and i may not know about it i mean can I be forced in sex while i m in sleep?
No: Most sexual intercourse( penile/vaginal, penile/ anal) requires the active participation of the male partner. A person could touch you without your consent during sleep and cause an erection, or could perform oral sex while you are sleeping. Healthy relationships depend on trust. If you do not feel secure with this person, then end the relationship. ...Read more
Sex and sleep: If both people are relaxed or really enjoying the sex, and not doing it because they feel obligated, feel pressure to conceive, or are too stressed about other things to enjoy it. True orgasm(not faked : ) produces a surge of enjoyable feelings. But if there are performance anxiety issues, one or both people don't feel their sexual needs are being met, or different in their views on sex-see a ther ...Read moreSee 10 more doctor answers
It sounds like: things are not so well for you. But there really was not a question here. The causes of poor sleep are many, and a detailed history by a doctor can sometimes help to find something to help. Many people find themselves very tired after sex. The French have a term "La petite mort" the little death, that describes the tired feeling some have after sex. ...Read more
Why do I moan really loud in my sleep? I wake my kids and my husband up doin so? Its nothing to do with sex. Its humiliating to say the least.
I've often read people say you should use your bed only for sleep and sex and not study or eating...What is the reason or theory behind that thought?
Husband likes to initiate sex in the AM. I really don't like my sleep interrupted but I always give in. I also feel morning sex hurts a bit more, why?
Not ready?: To lubricate you need to be emotionally available. If you don't lubricate enough then dry vagina would hurt with intercourse. Maybe you want to use water-base lubricants. ...Read more
Sleep apnea: I don't know what the answer to your question is, but obstructive sleep apnea is way ahead of whatever is in second place. In addition to degrading sleep quality and making one tired all day, sleep apnea has been shown to cause decreased testosterone levels in males. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers
I take Lexotanil 4 Sleep, I was erected during sex then i sleep when it wasn't fully erected, i wake up and it"s erected, can this 5 hours cause damge?
No, don't worry: Waking erections are very, very common and they don't cause any harm at all. Your sexual functioning as you describe it is fine. Your anxiety is showing however. Talk w/ the provider who prescribed for you and if possible, consider some counseling to help you understand things that do not need to worry you. Best! ...Read more
Maybe he shrunk?: Hmmm . . . I don't think you stated your age b/c there is some loss of elasticity w/age. Perhaps you were extra lubricated b/c adequate foreplay. Bottom line, I'd recommend ignoring that comment unless you thought he was smaller? More importantly, how is your relationship outside of bedroom? Do you two communicate well? Is he respectful & supportive of you? Any female friends you can chat with? ...Read more
I can't sleep in order for me to slp us to have sex but sometimes my wife don't want to have sex so i can't slp?
Will i be subjected to anal sex in sleep and not know about it and whether it can cause pain if done in sleep after i wake up?
My wife loves to be called by dirty names during sex and i also enjoy it sometimes.Does that mean that she is not loyal and can sleep with anyone?
Sex: No. Not in any way. That is actually a very surprising question and may represent a need for you to seek out therapy and work on your misperceptions and jealousy. Many people like to role play during sexual activity. But, you have the right to not participate in any sexual play that make you uncomfortable. ...Read more
After i sleep all night my wife wakes me up to have sex how come i can go forever and never have an orgasism ? But during the day quick orgasims ?
Mystery: Hard to say, but could be an emotional issue or even a situation due to just waking up vs being awake. If there are concerns, see a doctor. ...Read more
Boyfriend loses erection sometimes during sex, & recently he has not been sleeping well. He wakes up with hot or cold flashes. Should he be concerned?
Hot flashes and e.d.: Those symptoms suggest a hormonal issue and he should seek medical attention for a complete physical and history. ...Read more
What is your ? : If your current relationship is unacceptable to you, ask your doctor for a referral for individual therapy to explore why you're still in it & learn steps to take to extricate yourself from it. If your BF chooses not to participate in couples' counseling, you can only do what's right for you. ...Read more