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Can too much sex hurt your balls?

Can too much sex hurt your balls?

Yes: That is your sperm factory......you are stressing it out. But you can also have a gift of infection.....affecting that anatomy also....... ...Read more

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Can deep penetration during sex hurt your cervixx?

Can deep penetration during sex hurt your cervixx?

Yes: Many women find that penetration that contacts the cervix is uncomfortable, and feedback to your partner can help him avoid that.

If you are asking whether you can damage the cervix, then the answer is no--unless something other than a penis is going in there. ...Read more

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Does sex hurt the first time if your hymen is already broken?

Does sex hurt the first time if your hymen is already broken?

Possible: Even if the hymen is not intact, the hymenal remnants at the opening of the vagina will likely stretch a bit when sexual relations are initiated. That could be uncomfortable or painful. ...Read more

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Does sex hurt if your a virgin and that person is gental? Does you hymen heal up afterwards and for how long?

Varies..: In general, if gentle, careful, use plenty of lubrication and lots of foreplay, loss of virginity should not be excessively painful. The hymen does not heal up. It just tears and disappears. Healing usually takes about a week, but depends on how much injury (if any) there was and whether you continue to irritate the area with continued sexual activity. Please consider contraception... ...Read more

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Husband likes to initiate sex in the AM. I really don't like my sleep interrupted but I always give in. I also feel morning sex hurts a bit more, why?

Husband likes to initiate sex in the AM. I really don't like my sleep interrupted but I always give in. I also feel morning sex hurts a bit more, why?

Not ready?: To lubricate you need to be emotionally available. If you don't lubricate enough then dry vagina would hurt with intercourse. Maybe you want to use water-base lubricants. ...Read more

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Why does sex hurt me sometimes?

Painful coitus: Vaginal intercourse can be painful if there is not sufficient vaginal lubrication, if there is a discrepancy and incompatibility in anatomic sizes, if technique is rough or overly vigorous, if there is improper positioning, if there's insufficient vaginal relaxation or if there is vaginal pathology. If you continue to have painful intercourse, have your gynecologist examine and advise you. ...Read more

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Why does sex hurt for me? Please help me : (

Why does sex hurt for me? Please help me : (

It's complicated: Assuming you are having consensual sex, usually pain can be from decreased lubrication. Speak to your partner about your needs in terms of the arousal phase. Depending on your age, vaginal dryness may be a hormonal issue and you need to discuss it with your doctor. You can so have pain from sexually transmitted diseases. I would advise a visit with your doctor to sort this all out. ...Read more

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If I can fit two fingers inside will sex hurt?

I can not tell you: If your will experience pain during vaginal intercourse based on this information. ...Read more

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Does sex hurt less the second time around? I just lost my virginity yesterday and it hurt really bad.

Honeymoon syndrome: He ruptured the hymen first night, hence loss of virginity. It will heal naturally but you must discuss it with him so that he also understands why he has to go easy and wait for the normal healing to occur. ...Read more

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Why did second time sex hurt much more than my first time? I had sex two days apart. I thought second time should be easier.

Painful sex: The tissues around your genital area/vagina may have been irritated during your first sexual encounter (this is very common). It could take a couple of days to feel normal again. You may need to take things slower the next day and until everything feels back to normal. Consider using a lubricant to reduce friction against the skin so it doesn't hurt so much. ...Read more

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Does sex hurt for women the first time and if so why does it hurt?

Does sex hurt for women the first time and if so why does it hurt?

It can: There is a ring of skin called the hymen in front of the vagina this will usually tear during the first intercourse for women. This can cause some pain and bleeding but is normal. The vagina will also need to stretch a little the first couple times depending on the size of the penis entering it. ...Read more

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Will sex hurt if u have a cyst infection?

Will sex hurt if u have a cyst infection?

Possibly: Depends upon where the cyst is located and whether somebody has been trying to drain or incise (remove it surgically) it. ...Read more

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Anal sex. Hurts when he goes really deep. Why?

Anal sex. Hurts when he goes really deep. Why?

Anal sex: There is a curve in the rectum or sigmoid colon he must be hitting. Pain tells you and him that there may be a limit or less pressure. You guys can work this out to a point that is pleasurable for both of you. You can also get a good guide book to sex to explore safely the limits and how tos of sex. ...Read more

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How much does anal sex hurt from on a scale of 1-10?

How much does anal sex hurt from on a scale of 1-10?

That depends on a: Number of factors such as the level of muscle relaxation, size of penetrating object, force used, etc. ...Read more

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I'm female and I'm about to have sex for the first time. Could sex hurt?

I'm female and I'm about to have sex for the first time. Could sex hurt?

Yes: Even though sex is a natural desire and act, it can still hurt. To enjoy sex you must learn how to have sex. This will happen with patience and practice. ...Read more

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Can not having right angle during sex hurt? He is a virgin I don't hurt smear test or anything. He instead is putting pressure I think

Can not having right angle during sex hurt? He is a virgin I don't hurt smear test or anything. He instead is putting pressure I think

Sexual positions: Can be delightful and fun...pain should not play a rule. Remember- outercourse is just as important as intercourse and you BOTH should be wet and lubricated. Spending 15-20 minutes on foreplay and change positions so that both partners are smiling. I am not sure what you mean by right angle- please clarify. ...Read more

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Is there a way to make missionary sex hurt a lot less? I find doggy style doesn't hurt at all, but why? My gyno says everything is normal. Virgin..

Different positions: Many find different sexual positions to be more comfortable or more stimulating than others. There's nothing wrong with that. Communicate with your partner about how you feel, what seems to cause problems, etc. So you can find a position that works for both of you! It does not sound like you are a virgin now, though- if you've had sex, you are not a virgin! ...Read more

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Think I bled quite a lot in my 1st intercrs - looked like my 1st day period spottng, but it stopped shortly after. The sex hurts tho. Is it normal? How to improve? Should I expect bleeding again next time, and if so anything to worry?

Think I bled quite a lot in my 1st intercrs - looked like my 1st day period spottng, but it stopped shortly after. The sex hurts tho. Is it normal? How to improve? Should I expect bleeding again next time, and if so anything to worry?

Normal: Usually the bleeding and pain at first intercourse is from breaking the hymen. The bleeding pattern you describe is typical for it. Give it a few days to heal and it should not happen again. ...Read more

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Hi I had sex before I was on bc and now that I'm on it I feel sore and sex hurts?

Hi I had sex before I was on bc and now that I'm on it I feel sore and sex hurts?

Estrogen?: The first thing you should do is to see your gynecologist and make sure that you don't have an infection. It could also be that the lower estrogen your body experiences on birth control pills is interfering with your own natural lubrication. Try some lubricant such as KY silke or astroglide. ...Read more

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Why does sex hurt me Sometimes? When my partner goes in deep.

That just happens.: This is pretty much a universal experience. Several factors have to occur to NOT have pain: 1) arousal produces lubrication and also 2) enlargement of the opening and lengthening of the vagina. The penis can hit the cervix, the area might be not lubricated enough, the muscles might need some time to loosen. Taking a bit more time and a bit slower. Different positions also help ...Read more

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Sex hurts so bad every single time like really bad and my gyno said nothing is wrong?

Sex hurts so bad every single time like really bad and my gyno said nothing is wrong?

Second opinion: While a normal physical exam is reassuring, there are many causes of pain during sex. Pain during entry can be caused by an infection, vestibulitis, abnormal muscle tone to the vagina, or inadequate lubrication. Pain later on may be caused by inadequate arousal (which lubricates the vagina and causes lengthening of the vaginal cylinder). Adequate foreplay, lubrication, and positioning may help. ...Read more

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Deep penetration sex hurts and I cant be still I move alot and it upsets my boyfriend because he cant have his way but im in pain what to do?

Dyspareunia: A common cause of dyspareunia: pelvic girdle instability caused by a unilateral sacroiliac joint (SIJ) subluxation. The missionary position evokes pain as the flexed, abducted, & externally rotated female femur torques the pelvic girdle & strains SIJ iliolumbar ligament. Spoon position with most pained hip superior, to float loose SIJ, might be more comfortable, as well as prove this bio-dynamic. ...Read more

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Sex hurts! Have done it a couple times but with months in between. But it never gets better. It's like there's something he pushes on to pass that hurts?

Sex hurts! Have done it a couple times but with months in between. But it never gets better. It's like there's something he pushes on to pass that hurts?

Needs evaluation: Sex should not be painful. When it is evaluation is needed. There are a variety of causes -- poor lubrication, yeast infections, herpes, shingles, vulvar vestibulitis, lichen sclerosis, endometriosis etc. Since you are very young the doctor can examine your hymenal ring and make sure that it has opened enough for intercourse. ...Read more

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If your hymen was broken during a pap smear, will sex hurt?

If your hymen was broken during a pap smear, will sex hurt?

Not related: Why did you have a pap smear if you are not sexually active? Break in hymen during pap smear and painful sex are not related to each other. Using a lubricant for sex may lessen discomfort. ...Read more