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How to give pleasure to her?

How to give pleasure to her?

Ask: Being sensitive to her responses to your different touches is the starting point. If she gives no clue, you can ask what feels good. If still no response then likely she is not very comfortable in the relationship or with some aspect of being sexually active. The latter could be to some form of abuse in her past. ...Read more

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What is the pleasure principle in psych?

What is the pleasure principle in psych?

The Force: Essentially, this is a psychoanalytic term for the tendency or drive to achieve pleasure and avoid pain as the chief motivating force in behavior. ...Read more

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Why do people get pleasure from eating chocolate?

Why do people get pleasure from eating chocolate?

Dopamin: Chocolate stimulates our brain to releases the same "reward" neurotransmitter in the brain as cocain, heroin, tobacco and alcohol. Dopamin! That is why we feel soooo good after that. :). ...Read more

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What can I do to help my husband give me pleasure?

What can I do to help my husband give me pleasure?

Communication: You picked and loved your husband for certain characteristics that are valuable: e.g. Stability, income potential, appearance, etc. Probably you took communication for granted but you need to have discussions with him to express your needs in a mutually beneficial way. Most men are receptive to this and are shy, even in marriage to initiate such a conversation. ...Read more

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Is it true that too much pleasure can be unhealthy?

Hmmm...: I wouldn't say so. Too much of anything seems to be a problem, but if you learn to enjoy the little things and find good in even the bad... Is that unhealthy? ...Read more

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How can I help a much older boyfriend find pleasure?

How can I help a much older boyfriend find pleasure?

Clarify your meaning: I am not sure if your suggesting sexual, intellectual, emotional, physical, or spiritual pleasure. I assume you may be referring to sexual pleasure and therefore suggest a visit with a sex therapist or counselor and have your boyfriend get checked by his physician for any medical issues. ...Read more

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Can you explain if it's weird that pain causes me pleasure?

Can you explain if it's weird that pain causes me pleasure?

Endorphins: The brain's endorphins (opiate like molecules) are released any time there is injury and pain. The pleasue from these endorphins can be greater than the pain of the injury. This explains some of the behavior of self mutilation. Sexual pleasure can also be generated by painful experiences in some people (ex. Spanking). ...Read more

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Please describe the" sensory pleasure " areas in the woman's body?

Please describe the" sensory pleasure " areas in the woman's body?

Highly individual: The obvious sensory pleasure derives from stimulation of the breasts and genital area. Heightened sensitivity comes from the warmth of the relationship between the partners. But almost any sensory area can provide pleasure depending upon the connection between the partners, the history of contact and the arousal of the partner. ...Read more

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Is it okay for young boys to stick things in places to feel pleasure?

Is it okay for young boys to stick things in places to feel pleasure?

No it is not normal: I don't exactly understand what things and sticking in what places and at one age in boys. But if your question is putting objects in urethra, rectum or ears and nose. But it is no normal. I suggest your concern be discussed with the boy's Pediatrician openly. ...Read more

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Does a slight "u-curve" curvature provide any kind of extra pleasure?

Does a slight "u-curve" curvature provide any kind of extra pleasure?

Depends on Position: Every woman's anatomy is a little different, but the g-spot is located on the upper wall protecting the urethra from damage during sex. It is also a place of high nerve density and thus, usually more pleasure. If he eneters while you are facing each other, that curve could then reach that g-spot. ...Read more

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What is the differance between enjoyment and pleasure in the clinical sense?

Philosophical: Enjoyment is more related to physical experiences, while pleasure is a cerebral quality. These are philosophical not medical questions. ...Read more

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What is the clinical name for a person who gets pleasure from the pain and suffering of others?

What is the clinical name for a person who gets pleasure from the pain and suffering of others?

Sadism: From the name of the famous french count who wrote about his fantasies in the 18th century. However, individuals who are sadistic also often have personality disorders like antisocial and narcissistic personalities. ...Read more

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I can't get wet and I don't know why. I feel like a failure. I don't get any pleasure from down there. It's not even sensitive.?

I can't get wet and I don't know why. I feel like a failure. I don't get any pleasure from down there. It's not even sensitive.?

More questions: Dear Sydney, what makes a woman sexually aroused (manifested physically by lubrication in the vagina) can be SO different from woman to woman. Whereas some of us -women - may get arouse with the "traditional" sexual behaviors (kissing, etc) some other of us -women- might need other things! I would suggest seeing this a challenge, take an exploratory trip of your own body. I hope this helps, DrC ...Read more

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Why don't I get aroused anymore? I work long hard hours and take care of multiple family members and want just one guilty pleasure.

Why don't I get aroused anymore? I work long hard hours and take care of multiple family members and want just one guilty pleasure.

It depends.: This depends on the individual. This may be because of too much stress. It might be from a medical condition, like diabetes type ii, or low testosterone. This may need counseling, like with a psychiatrist or urologist. Self help and supervised group therapy can also help. ...Read more

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I used to find pleasure in eating and now I’ve completely lost my interest in food. I sometimes could go for a whole day without eating as well.?

I used to find pleasure in eating and now I’ve completely lost my interest in food. I sometimes could go for a whole day without eating as well.?

Depressed: You describe several of the symptoms associated with clinical depression. If you had said you were sleeping more I would definitely say so. You should see your family physician for a more thorough evaluation and possible treatment. If you develop thoughts of self-harm or the urge to harm others, please call 911 prior to acting. ...Read more

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I pleasure myself about 3 times per/day, is there something wrong with me? It doesn't interfere with anything day to day, but is it ok n normal? Weird?

I pleasure myself about 3 times per/day, is there something wrong with me? It doesn't interfere with anything day to day, but is it ok n normal? Weird?

Not necessarily: Hypersexuality can be normal esp in a young person, however sometime it may be a sign of some other underlying problem psychological and/or organic; you should discuss this with ur doctor- which maybe embarrassing, but very helpful in a long run;
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How to increase sexual pleasure in women?

How to increase sexual pleasure in women?

Man to man: The woman you with is unique. Ask and observe to discover what makes her happy -- both in bed and outside. Work hard to do what turns her on, and be the man that she wants as a lover. Make sure that she is satisfied before you get your final satisfaction. Simple consideration and respect to a long way to making a woman satisfied on every level. And congratulations on finding love. Good luck. ...Read more

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Why don't I feel pleasure when I masturbate?

Why don't I feel pleasure when I masturbate?

Sexual addiction?: May be you are developing tolerance. Stop for a while and consult psychiatrist. Too much of a good thing is also bad for you, . ...Read more

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What to do if I don't feel pleasure during sex?

What to do if I don't feel pleasure during sex?

Try to determine why: There are many reasons
why sex may not be enjoyable. 1 reason may be that a female simply is not yet emotionally ready for sexual activity. 2nd reason could be that one feels dirty or guilty (this may be especially so if one has religious prohibitions). 3rd reason is STRESS. If your mind is on other things it can be hard to relax & to be spontaneous. A 4th (& really BIG reason) is a relationship ...Read more

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Does desensitization of pleasure occur as you age?

Does desensitization of pleasure occur as you age?

Yes, but reversible: Increase nerve sensitivity and blood flow by adding in some testosterone. Women at 40 have half the level they had at 20, and testosterone plays a major role here. ...Read more

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What can cause there there to be less pleasure during ejaculation?

Either less: Arousal, interest, physical pleasure or something else. Generally, it's that you weren't as excited about it as usual. Otherwise you have a much better chance of figuring it out than I do......... ...Read more

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I can not feel any pleasure during sex, what seems the be the problem?

I can not feel any pleasure during sex, what seems the be the problem?

Sex at 17: Your info indicates you're only 17 years old. Sex at that age is likely to be accompanied by all kinds of anxieties which can affect how you experience intercourse. For instance, it can be hard to become naturally lubricated enough to enjoy intercourse, and if not it can be painful -- certainly interfering with pleasure. Please talk with your doctor about this, and about sex in general. ...Read more

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How can some guilty pleasures motivate me to maintain a healthy lifestyle?

How can some guilty pleasures motivate me to maintain a healthy lifestyle?

Premack Principle: The premack principle states that more probable behaviors will reinforce less probable behaviors. In other words, if you allow yourself a guilty pleasure only after performing a healthful behavior, the healthful behavior will be strengthened. But, it would also be a good idea if your guilty pleasure were not harmful to your health, say for example, dancing to justin bieber. ...Read more

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I never wore a bike helmet. Why should I if riding for pleasure slowly at 65?

I never wore a bike helmet. Why should I if riding for pleasure slowly at 65?

Accidents happen: First - just beacuse you were not injured in the past is not guarantee for future. Second - as a parent I do this as an example to the kids - no big deal and means a lot to them. ...Read more

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