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Pain And No Pleasure During Sex Vaginismus
My wife and I just became sexually active 2 weeks ago.She complains of pain without pleasure during sex. What could be the cause?
Many reasons: There many reasons for a woman just starting to be sexually active to have pain during sex. It takes a while for her body to accommodate the penis and she can be very sore and raw from the process even if it is very gentle. I suggest that she uses a lot of lubrication and also you should allow her time to heal. The pleasure usually comes after she becomes familiar with her body and the act of sex. ...Read more
Couples often worry about having sex during pregnancy. They may be afraid that having sex could cause a miscarriage or harm the baby. It is best to talk to your doctor or nurse midwife about your specific situation to make sure you are considered at low risk for complications such a ...Read more
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Try to determine why: There are many reasons why sex may not be enjoyable. 1 reason may be that a female simply is not yet emotionally ready for sexual activity. 2nd reason could be that one feels dirty or guilty (this may be especially so if one has religious prohibitions). 3rd reason is STRESS. If your mind is on other things it can be hard to relax & to be spontaneous. A 4th (& really BIG reason) is a relationship ...Read more
Does having a hard foreskin affect sex pleasure??will i be able to satisfy my wife ?will it hurt during sex????
I am 25 male and during sex i cannot feel as much pleasure as i used to and i find it very hard to reach my orgasm ?
Why don't I feel any pleasure during sex? I only feel pleasure during clitorial stimulation but not during sex. Is there something wrong with me?
Sex at 17: Your info indicates you're only 17 years old. Sex at that age is likely to be accompanied by all kinds of anxieties which can affect how you experience intercourse. For instance, it can be hard to become naturally lubricated enough to enjoy intercourse, and if not it can be painful -- certainly interfering with pleasure. Please talk with your doctor about this, and about sex in general. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
What could be the reasons of not feeling pleasure during sex? I only had it with one person for two years and I'm 16 could age be a problem too?
Yes, in a way: Not only simply chronological age, but even more - maturity. Fear (of pain, pregnancy, disease, not being adequately sexy, sin, shame, punishment) intrudes badly for most young women. Did you start at 14 or 16? Either might have brought these worries. As you mature emotionally, it's possible your confidence will grow and your relationships may build trust (a BIG part)! Be optimistic - have fun. ...Read more
Girlfriend recently feels much less pleasure during sex, but feels pain, which actually takes her off the mood. She is 19, sexualy active for a year?
Dyspareunia: if the pain is upon entry then possibly is due to lack of lubrication, trauma, inflammation, irritation and infection or due to Vaginismus, if the pain is deep then Pelvic inflammatory disease, Endometriosis, prolapse of uterus and etc. Make sure that your girl is emotionally available, has no stress, anxiety or depression. Make sure your relationship is solid, support her, see an Ob/gyn ...Read more
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