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Orgasm (Overview)

Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male semen & vaginal contraction.


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When do guys orgasm?

When this happens:: 1) breathing and pulse rates quicken. A "sex flush" may appear on the stomach, chest, shoulders, neck or face. Muscles tense in the thighs, hips, hands and buttocks, and spasms may begin.
2) first, seminal fluid collects in the urethral bulb. This is when a man may have the sensation that orgasm is certain, or "ejaculatory inevitability." next, semen is ejaculated from the penis. ...Read more

Orgasm (Overview)

Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male semen & vaginal contraction.


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How do I fake orgasm?

Why Fake It?: From a psychological and physiological point of view, you would find more benefit in life if you were to achieve an orgasm rather than acquire the knowledge on how to fake one. ...Read more

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How to get the best orgasm?

Be strongly: And mutually emotionally involved with your partner and don't rush. ...Read more

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I can't orgasm. Why is this?

I can't orgasm. Why is this?

Complicated: Unfortunately this can be quite a complicated topic which is probably to difficult to adequately address in 400 characters or less. But here is a good starting resource you can readily find online: http://www. Netdoctor. Co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble. Htm Best of luck ...Read more

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Do women have orgasm stages?

Do women have orgasm stages?

Yes.: And stages can be different and multiple! Not so for men.................................Poor guys! ...Read more

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What does an orgasm feel like?

What does an orgasm feel like?

Sex: Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on your perspective, one does not go to the doctor to learn how to be sexual. There are some very good and strict ethical boundaries in this regards. Given that you are a female I would have you start here where women work to teach other women about their bodies: http://www. Ourbodiesourselves. Org. ...Read more

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Is an orgasm allowed after d&c?

Is an orgasm allowed after d&c?

Why not: Who is going to forbid it? There is no reason why you shouldn't have an orgasm as soon as you feel well enough ; in the mood to have an orgasm after d ; c. ...Read more

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How to have an orgasm as a woman?

How to have an orgasm as a woman?

Female sexuality: I am sure your question will engender several good answers. Many women suffer from no orgasm during penetration or intercourse unless there is some attention paid to clitoral stimulation during love making. There is a book and website of women teaching women about this and other things about how their body works. It is Our Bodies Our Selves or: http:// www. Ourbodiesourselves. Org. Best wishes. ...Read more

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How do I know if I had an orgasm?

Signs & Symptoms: Orgasms are rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by sexual pleasure. They usually result from sexual stimulation {male = penis; female = clitoris} and may be accompanied by physical responses such as: increased heart rate, generalized and increased muscle tone/tightening and increased vocalizations {both voluntary and involuntary}. Not everyone has the same response. ...Read more

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I'm ticklish after I orgasm, why?

I'm ticklish after I orgasm, why?

Not unusual: Your sensory nervous system becomes stimulted by an orgasm so your sensory nerve endings become temporarlly stimulated ; thus any sensory stimulus, like tickling, is magnified and hence you become more ticklish. ...Read more

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Why do I feel guilty after orgasm?

Why do I feel guilty after orgasm?

Hmmmm. . .: Feeling guilty after orgasm is a very individual response. Consulting with a therapist can help you discover your own answers to this. Not knowing you, i'd wonder about the circumstances of achieving "guilty" orgasms -- partner choice, masturbation, etc. Perhaps you feel that sexual feelings and activities are sinful and shouldn't be enjoyed at all, if you are a "good" person? Many others, too. ...Read more

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How can you give a woman an orgasm?

How can you give a woman an orgasm?

Wrong Forum: I am happy to report that there are significant rules in medicine about sex. Boundaries are very clear. We are not not have any opinion on how, when or with whom you are sexual. You do not go to the doctor to learn how to have sex. Perhaps you can get a guide book on how to have sex. ...Read more

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Why can't I have an orgasm anymore?

Why can't I have an orgasm anymore?

Variable: Sensitivity changes with menopause can certainly affect the ability for women to experience orgasm. Hormone balance, relationship, overall health and other factors are involved. The O Shot was developed to help women regain their ability for sexual function with a simple office treatment. See information at www. Oshot. Info ...Read more

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Why can't some woman have an orgasm?

Why can't some woman have an orgasm?

Female anorgasmia: Despite dr. Killian's assertions, this is a common problem. World-wide epidemiological studies have found a prevalence of about 20-40%. Bisexual and lesbian women are not well-represented in these data, but smaller studies of these populations show similar frequency. Factors such as depression, anxiety, medications, relationship and cultural issues, & poor physical health are all risk factors. ...Read more

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How can I have more than one orgasm?

How can I have more than one orgasm?

It can be done!: There is a great book called eso, extended sexual orgasm by dr. Alan and donna brauer. It talks about how a man can help a woman have multiple orgasms. They even have a work book. Read that first. Having a patient skilled partner helps, have him read the book too. It would very difficult to do what that book says by yourself, you really need a good partner to make it work. ...Read more

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Girlfriend can't orgasm, what to do?

Girlfriend can't orgasm, what to do?

Be patient ;...: Be patient and ask her what you can do to please her. Make her understand that you want to, but not for male ego! ...Read more

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Why so I feel angry after an orgasm?

Why so I feel angry after an orgasm?

No right answer, but: Feeling angry after orgasm is really paradoxical, albeit inducing a general relaxation/well-being after orgasm for most, but indeed happens to few. Its causes by and large are still unclear although a trace back to personal undesirable sex encountering has been elucidated. Despite being still in some darkness of understanding it, it is worthwhile to dig into various aspects of life in the past. ...Read more

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How come I get no joy from orgasming?

How come I get no joy from orgasming?

Many things.: Sex devoid of emotion is the most common cause, since it reduces sex to a mechanical act. Talk to your doctor or therapist! good luck! ...Read more

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What's the best way to achieve orgasm?

What's the best way to achieve orgasm?

Stimulation: Intercourse or fellatio for men. Clitoral stimulation manually or by vibrator for women. ...Read more

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43yrs old never had orgasm why? Help!

43yrs old never had orgasm why? Help!

Very common: You are not alone. Many women have never had an orgasm. Most women have their first orgasm from masturbation. If you don't know how to do that, it is easy to learn. If that does not work then you need a physical exam to make sure you don't have a hooded clitoris. Most women need to fantasize during sex/masturbation to get enough arousal to achieve an orgasm. Ask for help, this can be fixed! ...Read more

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How to have a stronger orgasm (men)?

How to have a stronger orgasm (men)?

No pill: As I mentioned earlier, brain is the biggest sex organ and you need to have yours examined. It may help to see a therapist to assess your attitude to sex and orgasm. Try paying more attention to the pleasure of your partner and you may reap a better dividend than being pre-occupied with your own. ...Read more

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What causes a female squirting orgasm?

What causes a female squirting orgasm?

Still being studied: Female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid by the paraurethral ducts through and around the human female urethra during or before an orgasm. It is also known in slang as gushing or squirting. Some women, if stimulated in the right area, can "squirt" during or as part of an orgasm. Women can still orgasm without squirting too. Hope this helps. ...Read more

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How can I know if I'm orgasming fully?

Interesting.: Don't suppose you can ever know that. Do you feel like you are missing something? Is there something that you can do to yourself that is beyond what you normally experience? What makes you wonder if you are not having a "full" orgasm." ...Read more

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How many times a day can a guy orgasm?

How many times a day can a guy orgasm?

As many as you want: Each time you have an orgasm, your prolactin level will rises. This prevents you from having another orgasm immediately. Even so, there is no harm in trying to have more orgasms if that is what you want to do. There are rare men that don't get prolactin elevation with orgasm, they can have orgasms over and over again without the usual "toilet flush" delay. ...Read more

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How to have a great orgasm on your own?

Practice: Knowing what stimulates you most and causes you to have a great orgasm depends on many factors, some physical, and some psychological, etc. With time, practice, experimentation, and practice, you will get to know what makes you have the best orgasm. Best wishes. ...Read more

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How can I control getting daily orgasm?

Unclear!: What do you mean? Do you want to have daily orgasms and cannot. Or do you have daily orgasms and you don't want them? Please ask again and clarify! There's a 150 character limit for your question, including spaces and punctuation, so keep it brief but complete. ...Read more

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How to know when if I have reach orgasm?

You will know: You will know! Uncontrollable movements, muscle tension, euphoria, and feeling of release. ...Read more

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Why can't my husband always reach orgasm?

Medications: The most common reason to be able to get an erection but not acheive orgasm is medication - usually anti-depressants. Other medications can also cause this (blood pressure, for example) but usually they also interfere with erections. ...Read more

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Is squirting from having an orgasm normal?

What is Squirting?: “squirting” is controversial. Some indicate that it is a form of female ejaculation in which the fluid is propelled from para-urethral ducts during or prior to orgasm. Others hold that it is lubricating secretions or incontinence of urine. ...Read more

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How can I stop making a noise when I orgasm?

Noise: Making noise when having sex or an orgasm is a normal physiologic event and is your way of exhibiting pleasure. Not everyone makes noise as there are many different ways of exhibiting sexual joy and satisfaction. Trying hard to stop the noise making will distract from the pleasure and you may feel half satisfied. ...Read more

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Why does it take me so long to have a orgasm?

Why does it take me so long to have a orgasm?

"so long"?: I'm not sure how you're judging the "so long" part? Sounds like you're comparing to someone or something else? Some people say this when they haven't taken time to explore what pleases them & what doesn't. Perhaps speaking with a sex therapist would help. You can find a trained one through the american association of sexuality educators, counselors & therapists: http://www. Aasect. Org/. ...Read more

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What is the best way I can achieve an orgasm?

Here are some...: No perfect answer could be deduced since multiple factors may influence the process and intensity of orgasm like aging, general health, certain diseases, certain drugs, the balance of current mental and physical state at sex. So, with these in mind, it is logical exercise healthy lifestyle to optimize your functional state which will be the best you can do. More? Contact me... ...Read more

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How can I know that my wife is having orgasm?

How can I know that my wife is having orgasm?

See below.: Can't really. Could ask her. But you had better be prepared for the answer. Orgasm is generally accompanied by rhythmic contraction of the pelvic muscles and a slight rash or flushing of the chest but this can be hard to detect. ...Read more

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Haven't had a orgasm from sex in 2 years. Why?

Haven't had a orgasm from sex in 2 years. Why?

It may take time: Sometimes it may take time to learn to have an orgasm. Also choice of partner and type of stimulation is important. Medication and certain neurological or psychological issues may block an orgasm. Always use protection. ...Read more

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Why does it take me forever to have an orgasm?

Very common in women: If you are talking about orgasms with your partner then for some women, foreplay starts 2-3 days before sex. Your partner may need to call you and plant ideas in your mind before they ever get to touch you. Foreplay done well makes sex and orgasms much easier. Anybody can have an orgasm, expert foreplay is much harder to find. Have a chat with your partner about what you like long before you start. ...Read more

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Is it normal to feel guilty after self-orgasm?

Is it normal to feel guilty after self-orgasm?

Very common: And no need to feel guilty at all. Masturbation is natural. It 1000s of years old. Assuming you are doing it in private and not to the exclusion of all other activities, it is even healthy. You were probably told that "nice girls don't do that" by someone you respected or somebody you thought was authoritative, and now you believe it. Talk to a counselor. Its ok give yourself orgasms. Really. ...Read more

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What could cause my inability to reach orgasm?

What could cause my inability to reach orgasm?

Lots of things: Assuming you are a woman, low hormones, poor technique, depression, a hooded clitoris, and many other choices. Never having had an orgasm is different than having had them in the past and not having them anymore. If you are a "never had", get a physical exam. Most women have their first orgasm from masturbation. Ask your doc for help, this can be frustrating and it can be fixed! ...Read more