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No Sex Drive After 2nd Child Was Born How Can Husband Cope
Couple's time: Hormone changes during pregnancy, just after having a baby and during breast-feeding can put a damper on sex drive. Fatigue, changes in body image and the pressures of caring for a new baby can all contribute to changes in sexual desire. Hiring an sitter to care for your children while you and your partner work on your relationship via adult activities may help rekindle the desire. ...Read more
Lost ability to climax & complete sex drive during 3rd pregnancy wit my only son about 3 yrs ago. Ob/gyn says time heals. How can I get it all back?
Not just time: Sex drive/ability to orgasm is largely in your head, not your vagina. Fatigue, body image issues, and many other things can influence your libido. Find a baby sitter and make time for you and your hubby to really get "reacquainted" with one another - go on a "date" and steam up the windows in the car! sex and sex drive with kids is often a "hurry up and let's go" thing instead of romance...Tough.. ...Read more
Had unprotective sex to my 38yo partner he had vasectomy, for 2yrs, thinking of having a baby, is it possible we can have if he "undo" (reverse) it?
Unlikely: We don't know what causes preterm labor. If a woman is having premature contractions sometimes the doctors tell her to stay off her feet and to avoid intercourse. While intercourse probably does not cause preterm contractions, it may make them worse once you have them. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
My wife had 5 yrs' sexual relation with her ex-boyfrnd and i knew it after 10 months of our marriage.My wife confess it to me. Now what can I do now?
Love your Wife: I know you ask this question out of concern and cultural traditions. But, in my opinion as a man and as a physician, i would focus on the now. She is in love with you. She is your wife. Her past is not in any way going to change what your relationship is with her today. I vote that you love her and appreciate her honestly. ...Read more
Iam 7 weeks pregnant.i have had argument with my husband .he doesnt want to have a sex with me .what happened if i born the baby without sex .
No probs w pregnancy: So sorry to hear about your marital stress. Not uncommon. And pregnancy can bring this out, esp. if there are financial problems. You both have valid points - u just need help. Is husband willing to allow counselor or impartial wise friend to walk with you thru the major issue to a win-win solution? BTW, Not having sex won't hurt your pregnancy at all. Keep your prenatal appointments & care plan. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers
Hi, how can I know if a girl had sex before marriage? I had sex wtih her many times but don't know if she had sex before me with some one else or not?
Hard to know: If you focus on building a long term relationship and you dont have sex immediately and she is content with that type of relationship then likely she has had fewer partners. Get tested for sti's and ask her to do so too before sex and each share your results with the other before sex, then you know you are much more likely to be in a safe and committed relationship. ...Read moreSee 3 more doctor answers
Hi, i'm 35 weeks prego my hubby will come next week can we have sex normally cause i had sex with him since june i need to know thank you. ?
My wife disclosed she is asexual after 16 yrs of marriage. Two children. I have no idea what to do. We're in couple therapy. I need intimacy.
Marriage needs: You know what you need. Very good. Do you know what she needs?? You state that you have been married for 16 years. How often do you just sit down and talk with her. An old saying says: "Happy wife; Happy life". The key is good and open communication between the two of you. Happy Valentine's Day to you BOTH !!! ...Read more
Sex with someone in nov. Got period dec9. Had sex with bf dec 6,15,21,22. Due sept 14. How do i convince bf it his bby? Do we need a DNA test for nov?
Paternity: It sounds like you are not going to convince your boyfriend of his paternity by your word alone and that he has some trust issues with you. DNA testing is likely going to be the only way you are going to prove to him he is the father. You will need to wait until the baby is born, unless there is some other medical reason to invade the amnion and obtain fluid for testing before birth. ...Read more
Had an unsafe sex with my wife. She is pregnant now. We're having 2 children already & don't want 3rd baby now. Please help us to remove pregnancy?
After i've had three children, my sexual appetite pretty much diminished. What can I do to bring it back? I'm only 31 yrs old.
Stress, mainly:: What shakespeare called "the ravelled sleeve of care:" lots of distractions and demands, no time to relax and daydream. I think a vacation would help. Also, ask your doctor about possible endocrine factors: low levels of hormones can also reduce libido. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I have sex with my boyfriend sep 15 to 18 my period date is sep 19 and had sex with husband on sep 10 to 12. Got pergnant.How to know baby from whom?
No way of knowing: First you have not provided your ovulation date; nor have you provided us with your due date. But, that may not be enough to give you a valid answer. You had sperm from both men alive and swimming in you at the same time. The only right answer to your question since both men's sperm were there to meet your egg is that you will need dna paternity testing. ...Read more
Hi doctor I'm married from 5 years and had unprotected sex with my husband many times..we divorced and I was in relation with another man we too ?
Uncertain: I'm uncertain about what your question is but it sounds like you are concerned about infertility.The only way to know if you are infertile with any given partner (yes it does depend on both of you) is to have regular, unprotected intercourse.If you haven't conceived after 1 year it is time to begin a work up for both of you (again it takes 2).If your periods are irregular you need to look into it. ...Read more
Boyfriend smokes n drinks alcohol we've had sex 2years with no contraceptive and no pregnancy how long will it take to get pregnant after he quits?
???: Smoking and alcohol should not definitively effect the chance of pregnancy. If mid cycle, when your ovulating, unprotected sex does not yield a pregnancy after many tries, than there may be another issues at play and a fertility assessment may be warranted. Certainly, he should stop smoking and drinking in excess. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I gave oral sex to my BF, he's 18 &never even kissed anyone still a virgin in all ways, his dad died 16 yrs ago from hiv can he receive it wit birth?
No: Not from his father and definitely not after having lived 18 years without treatment. ...Read more
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