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Never had sex with anyone. Married now. My new husband is angry. Someone please!?

Never had sex with anyone. Married now. My new husband is angry. Someone please!?

Understandable: Sex is part of normal married life, so every normal male expects to have sex with his wife after marriage. This should have been discussed before the wedding. Non-consummation of a marriage permits a marriage to be annulled. See a gynecologist if normal sex is impossible for anatomic reasons. Consider seeing a psychiatrist or a couples counselor if there are any psychological constraints.Good luck. ...Read more

Married (Definition)

This is the term for the legal/religious contact between two individuals who make a committment to each other, sometimes out of love, but sometimes for financial or other reasons. It is not defined in the bible and marriage in fact is a recent development of the past 400 years or so related to property ...Read more


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I already married since last December 5th 2015 .but till now we have not baby?

I already married since last December 5th 2015 .but till now we have not baby?

No reason to worry: On average it takes 6 months for couples not using contraceptives to conceive a baby and it is generally thought there is no need for any medical evaluation until you go a year without success. So take a good prenatal, eat a healthy diet, relax, time intercourse to the 2 days before ovulation and have fun trying. ...Read more

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30 years old, had three sexual partners-- been with my husband for 11 years now. I've never once had an abnormal pap.does that mean I never had hpv?

30 years old, had three sexual partners-- been with my husband for 11 years now. I've never once had an abnormal pap.does that mean I never had hpv?

No: Keep getting your pap smears but you're at low risk. Congratulations on your successful relationship and your wise life choices overall. And if HPV does turn up, we can manage it with near-100% success if you're compliant. In the old days, cancer of the cervix caused by HPV was a mass killer, worse than breast cancer today. Now the key is avoiding HPV, but managing it sensibly when it turns up. ...Read more

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I have never had sex, yet I fear that I may have genital warts?

I have never had sex, yet I fear that I may have genital warts?

Here are some ...: Your fear for contracting HPV is understandable. Clinically, you're free of it, suggesting either you never got it or you have coped with it well. Fact: Some 1% of sexually active adults in the US have wart although some 10-15% of the US population are tested positive for HPV DNA; this implies many HPV-infected are free of clinical disease of warts. So, I wouldn't spend much time to worry about it ...Read more

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43yrs old never had orgasm why? Help!

43yrs old never had orgasm why? Help!

Very common : You are not alone. Many women have never had an orgasm. Most women have their first orgasm from masturbation. If you don't know how to do that, it is easy to learn. If that does not work then you need a physical exam to make sure you don't have a hooded clitoris. Most women need to fantasize during sex/masturbation to get enough arousal to achieve an orgasm. Ask for help, this can be fixed! ...Read more

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Should i be worried that morning erections have lately disappeared at age 30? never had sex, never married occasional masturbtn. em worried

Should i be worried that morning erections have lately disappeared at age 30?  never had sex, never married occasional masturbtn. em worried

Depends: If you are still able to successfully masturbate to ejaculation (without any significant change in effort / duration required), then you are likely just waking up at a different point in your sleep cycle and there is nothing to worry about. If there is a change, then should see a Urologist for evaluation. ...Read more

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Im 18 i met my boyfriend 5and half years ago we have 2years girl, we live together 2years why i always don't want sex before i had my girl i loved sex, ?

Im 18 i met my boyfriend 5and half years ago we have 2years girl, we live together 2years why i always don't want sex before i had my girl i loved sex, ?

Still a Child: I am happy that you love your little girl. But, even two years into motherhood you are still so very young. Libido, or the desire to be sexual, is given to our brains when we have all of the other needs of our body met first. If you are fatigued, overworked, worried, or have any other common problems with young motherhood the libido may very well leave for a time. This can be solved. ...Read more

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My discharge has suddenly turned reddish brown.Never happened before.Girlfriend never had previous partners. I have had partners, but never had this.

My discharge has suddenly turned reddish brown.Never happened before.Girlfriend never had previous partners. I have had partners, but never had this.

Vaginal discharge: Any new or significantly changed vaginal discharge, without obvious cause, should be professionally examined. There are many possibilities, but colored discharge often is due to infection -- and if "had partners" means more than one partner recently or new partner, then STDs are a particular concern. See a doctor and check it out. ...Read more

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30, not married, never had sex also not masturbated since a month. but morning erections disappeared lately? em worried.

30, not married, never had sex also not masturbated since a month. but morning erections disappeared lately? em worried.

Here is my take ...: At this time, if your energy and ability to fulfill your personal & occupational chores & tasks are in place, I would not worry about what you described. However, if such condition lasts with on-way downward worsening >3 months, you should seek pro-evaluation and counseling. Meanwhile, no matter who, when, what, where, and how you're, make sure to practice healthy lifestyle without overindulgence. ...Read more

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Husband has no sex drive. We haven't had sex for 2 years.

Husband has no sex drive. We haven't had sex for 2 years.

Hormone testing can: shed some light on things. Please ask him to see his doc who may do that. Depression is also a possibility. If your husband is motivated to get well there are lots of things to look into for the answer. Peace and good health. ...Read more

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I am 59 years and my wife 50 years she has stopped periods almost 3 yrs we had sex every week using condom without any precaution we can enjoy sex?

I am 59 years and my wife 50 years she has stopped periods almost 3 yrs we had sex every week using condom without any precaution we can enjoy sex?

Postmenopausal: After 1 year without a period, a woman is considered postmenopausal, which means that her ovaries no longer produce eggs. So she can't get pregnant. ...Read more

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Why could a 25 year old seemingly perfectly healthy woman never conceive if having unprotected sex?

Why could a 25 year old seemingly perfectly healthy woman never conceive if having unprotected sex?

Yes: 'infertility' is defined as a couple that has unprotected intercourse without conception for one year.Common female fertility factors in order are: 1) ovulatory problems, 2) tubal dmage, 3) other anatomic problems, 4) peritoneal disease. An male factor can be present in about 40% of cases. ...Read more

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Wenever I have sex with my hubby I have never discharged during sex its been 3 years of our wedding...?

Wenever I have sex with my hubby I have never discharged   during sex its been 3 years of our wedding...?

Yes: Not all women orgasm. If you are able to masturbate and orgasm then that is a good sign. Talk to your husband about what works for you so be can help you orgasm. ...Read more

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I have never had chickenpox before yet i have shingles... how?

I have never had chickenpox before yet i have shingles... how?

Can happen: You were exposed to the virus, you probably had a subclinical infection, but you were infected, and the virus remained dormant in your body, flared up when it had the chance and you developed shingles, hopefully it will be mild and you won't have it again ...Read more

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My. Wife always having period on time but she didn't ovulate. We got married 6 years before yet she didn't. Conceive. Please advise us.

My. Wife always having period on time but she didn't ovulate. We got married 6 years before yet she didn't. Conceive. Please advise us.

TRY CLOMIPHEN CITRAT: GET FULL INVESTIGATION TEST TUBES PATENCY TEST OVULATION USING OVULATION KIT SPERM COUNT TRY DURING FERTILITY PERIOD I.E. 14 DAYS BEFORE EXPECTED DATE OF PERIOD THAT WHOLE WEEK IS FERTILE PERIOD TAKE 50 MG CLOMID (clomiphene) STARTING ON 5TH DAY OF BLEEDING FOR 5 DAYS AND THEN SEX EVERY OTHER DAY FOR 3 WEEKS ...Read more

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Any advice? I have never had sex, yet i fear that i may have genital warts?

Any advice? I have never had sex, yet i fear that i may have genital warts?

Not likely: Don't be afraid. Genital warts are common and they are contagious. They are spread almost exclusively by sexual encounters. While intercourse is the most common way to spread them, genital fingering or touching of an infected person can result in self-infection. Warts are small bumps, usually painless. They may cause itching and bleeding. There may be only a few or may be a lot.. Peter wilk, md. ...Read more

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I am positive for Chlamydia. All my recent STD screenings were neg. I am married 5yrs, never cheated. Does my Chlamydia mean he has been unfaithful?

I am positive for Chlamydia. All my recent STD  screenings were neg. I am married 5yrs, never cheated. Does my Chlamydia mean he has been unfaithful?

Not necessarily: Chlamydia is asymptomatic in 75% of women and 50% of the affected men. So either or both of you might have had it without knowing it. But you both need to be treated to prevent reinfection. ...Read more

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How avoid sex indulgence and obsessive erotica(porn). I have had sex with male. I never have had sex with girl though i know I am going to marry girl?

How avoid sex indulgence and obsessive  erotica(porn). I have had sex with male. I never have had sex with girl though i know I am going to marry girl?

Sexuality: Thank you for being brave enough to ask this question. I think perhaps you should know first that many boys experiment with boys before they enter their adult sexuality. Second, as you figure this out and if you still have desires to be with a male that this is perfectly normal and fine. It sounds like your sexual thoughts and desires are bothersome so i would recommend a good counselor! ...Read more